A Newbie' Outlook Part 4

H i Everyone, I'm back with my next installment of a "newbie's" outlook and experience's. Since I last wrote I have been working my little tail off in my MLM network business.I have learned so much that it would be too long of an article. Let me just say that most lessons learned the"hard" way are lessons that become life changing lessons!!! and I'm going thru these lessons every day, now that I'm in the trenches.I took off running and figuered that my gift of gab, and my "diamond personality" would get me right into the thick of.... signing up new prospects!!! gee, all I had to do was be enthusiastic, and let my "motor mouth" take over, and let all the prospects see the "whites of my teeth" as I smiled so sincerely!! hahahaha yea right!.. Hey I thought this would be all I needed.... that is what my up-lines were telling me, and of course, every night on the training calls I was being reinforced that all I had to do was "Take Massive Action"..... well I did !!! and you know what??.. I should have taken a "Massive Dose of  EX-LAX!!!!!. I would have had more movement... if you know what I mean. Well folks , I have signed up a big..... 1 prospect!.... and thats it!!! and I almost had to hold a gun to this prospects head!!!hahahahaah... but I'm learning...... what works and what does not   for me...... I still keep it lite, and use my Lite Marketing techiques. I will not put pressure on anyone  to enroll... I did not like it, and I'm sure most people avoid this like the "Black Plague". I need to go thru this.... as so many others before have, hopefully I will learn from everyone, and learn from my mistakes. I'm so glad I did my research, because...... I was prepared for this..... not failure.... there is no failure remember??? just not obtaining the results I had hoped for. Maybe these techniques about Massive action and speaking with as many people as you can worked for them....... years ago, but not for me.... not now!!!.My up-line and trainer still motivates me..... and the up-lines want to help.... I hope it's because they want me to succeed, and they make more money as I make more money!!!! boy..... thats a great motivator!.Sorry but money does not motivate me...... I want to actually make a difference in someone's life, and to help!. I may be going out on a cliff here..... I do believe in my product/services..... but I'm marketing  by the seat of my pants..... and I have put on a few inches on my butt, and the pants are a little snug!! hahaaha.. but I was ready for this...... well maybe not this much.I'm learning that I have to find & reach my target customers/clients....... and that will not happen by chasing after everyone to give them the priviledge of signing up for my business opportunity.... unless I pay them!!! very well, I might add.... most people do not want the "cheap" stuff. I need to learn more technology..... for marketing purpose's. Video, Ad Words, SEO....... chasing people, and "Massive Action" is not gonna cut it!!! unless I get an automatic weapon, and line people up... to sign up or be sprayed with bullet's!!!!! the choice is theirs!!!. So in closing, I plan on taking a small step back( I have little feet ) , my wife says "thats not all that's little!!!! crap... that's for another article in another forum!.. I want to assess what I'm doing!! and lack of progress, learn some new Internet marketing techniques, and try to focus into my market. I know my up-line, and trainers may not agree, but darn... they still get their monthly check off  me right?? even though my up-lines say, that I have to do it their way..... duplicate their methods...... maybe it works...... but not for me its not!.. and for many others who leave this company because their results are not what they expected!!. I expected this... sort of..., and I'm not a quitter!! I just need to make a "course correction"  and find my way, and keep the Lite Marketing on!! even though my family thinks my "bulb" has long burnt out!!. I may not "meet" as many people, as my company would like, but when I do meet up with someone.... in person, or over the phone, or on the Internet.... I want to believe I can be of service to that person, and not look at the $$$$$$ signs.... that all for now my friends, feel free to contact me... I'm always willing to learn ,and share what I have learned. Enjoy your endeavours, enjoy your life, live each day to the fullest, and tell your loved ones, how much you love them. Tony Caminero