Do You Want To Manifest Abundance? What's your limit? $5,000/mo, $10,000/mo... More?
I opened my Private Messages on Better Networker today to find a message that yielded a response from me worthy of sharing with the entire community. I discovered that I received this without the ability to send a Private Message in return, so here it is for all the world!
(If you are going to share such a message with someone, it's always good to make sure your profile is set to receive PMs in return.)
Without getting too wordy by way of explanation, I'll simply share the message and the associated thoughts that just seemed to flow out of my fingertips as I replied...
THE MESSAGE...
Hello Randy:
I don't know you, even though you asked me to approve your friendship. I only associate with winners as I dropped all my loser friends that had stinken thinking. Just to give you glimpse of my attitude, www "hiswebsite" .com, click on Necker Island. If your type of people that would like to be in a high end group of millionaires, I'd like to welcome your friendship. Otherwise may all your dreams come true, but please remove me from your list of friends
Aloha,
(Name withheld to protect privacy)
AND MY RESPONSE...
Hey _____,
Thanks for the message. I checked out the site you referred me to and you may want to take a second look at how you're doing business.
I don't mean this in a rude way, and I'm not offended. I'm trying to help you with some marketing and relationship knowledge that others have shared with me, and I truly hope it's beneficial to you and creates better results for you in your business and personal life.
You're asking me to go into business with you when we really don't even have a relationship yet, just a mere introduction to each other. I'm sure you're a nice guy, but I hardly know you either.
People go into business with people they like and trust. Well, if there's no relationship there, only an introduction, what is there for me to like and trust about a person?
You have to build value in a person's life before a thinking, analytical person would consider doing business with a complete stranger.
Some more questions:
Is it a 5 Pillar company? Do you know how to relate to different personalities when marketing? Can you quickly tell when a company is a scam?
Am I building a RESIDUAL income that will always be there, or in order to keep making money do I have to SELL, SELL, SELL and RECRUIT, RECRUIT, RECRUIT? Can I go on vacation, or even retire, and continue to make the same amount of money?
Well, what are the 5 Pillars, right? I asked that too when I first heard of it. Well, I want to give you a free, quick, and easy way to get some of these questions answered for you... *ANSWERS* After you take a look, as I looked at your link, get back with me on Skype: randy9765 or give me a call. (435)454-3769
I have so much that I am willing to share with you for absolutely no charge, that will manifest abundance in your financial and personal life. I'm at your door knocking, but you have to open it up. I'm not breaking into your home with no invitation! lol :>)
I know the answer to all of these questions for the company I've chosen to work with, and I know that when I have a team of 350 people in my mastermind alliance that I will be making $10,000 a month RESIDUAL. It's going to be there whether I'm working or not!
I could be sitting on a beach in Mexico, hiking up high in the Rocky Mountains, or spending time with family anywhere I choose to go and still be making $10,000 every single month! I could even come and visit you on the big island. :)
I have friends who have already reached that goal and are helping me do the same. In my mastermind alliance, me and my friends are helping others do the same as well. Please notice, I said friends! These are people I had a relationship with, BEFORE I even considered going into business with them.
These aren't "warm market" friends either. These are people I met on the internet, we became friends, they made themselves worthy of my friendship and trust, and then we went to work together.
You probably "get this" and I truly hope you do. Network marketing is not about SELL, SELL, SELL or RECRUIT, RECRUIT, RECRUIT.
It's ALL about RELATIONSHIPS!
If any of this is making sense, grab my eBook. This was shared with me from my good friend and mentor Michael Dlouhy, who was in turn mentored by Tom "Big Al" Schreiter, who is a legend in the Network Marketing Industry.
I'm not even going to ask you to go into business with me. If you want to do business with me, you'll ask me, right?
And I welcome your friendship unconditionally, for life, if you so choose, whether we ever do business together or not.
Your Forever Friend,
Randy Enman
About the Author: Randy Enman
Member Since: 11/02/2008
Company: ARC Media -- Advertising-Relations-CoMarketing & Cedar Bear Naturales -- 100% Non-Alcohol Liquid Herbals
Industry: Marketing and Advertising
Primary Web Site: http://twitter.com/IMTrailblazer


Well Said Randy!
Great response to his pm. Wow. I agree with you 100% It is a relationship business. If I like you and you like me maybe we can do business together. But we can always be friends!
Thank you Randy,
Timothy C Burns
What An Attitude
Good for you Randy, what an unbelievable nerve. Unfortunately these are the folk who are tainting this industry (spammers) with that sort of approach. He really thought he was being genuine but couldn't keep it up. I like your concept Randy and i am glad to be associated with you, and so far as it seems the whole community here.
All my best
Mike
Yep Got the Same Email
I did some research on his company wasn't good if you got involved and did't come in at the top pkg. and the next person under you did and nobody above you had spent the 18k all the commission would go straight to the company makes a lot of sense to me to join a company like that.
Randy thanks for Posting this article help more people understand how many scammer there are out here.
Radical Acceptance
Randy,
I really appreciate your lesson in unconditional acceptance and openness. Thanks for sharing.
Kate Williams
EXCELLENT REPLY
Randy there is no other one that would have done it the way you just did it is really awesome. thats the way we the family would do it. Keep it up
Amazing
Hi Randy.
Its absolutely fantastic. Simply Amazing.
I am a fan of yours now on. Great work.
Randy, I want to know more about you.
Thank you.
Sage advise
If MLM marketers experiencing less than satisfactory results with their businesses would evaluate the that which is behind your words.reasons would become obvious. New people as a matter of course should pay attention to what you say, they could save years of frustration and failure.]
From The Heart
Elwood
Couldn't have said it better Randy!!!
Hey Randy, Great response, a little to POLITE for me, but then again, your a NICE guy. :-)
Another thing to consider here, he does live on an Island, so you probably interupted his Banana Boat Oil rub down. You should have asked him when would be a more appropriate time to ask for his friendship? lolololol
That's probably why he lives on an Island in the first place. I mean, an ATTITUDE like that most certainly DESERVE one good "GHETTO BEAT DOWN!!!" Sorry, but sometimes people just bring me back to my roots.....lololol
Randy, your to professional to let this even hinder your frame of thought. I hope all you did was read it and dispose of it immediately. It would be a pleasure to know what his website and name was so that WE can all join the band wagon.
There are days where I just pick on certain individuals who say "DUMB" things to get me going throughout the day. I truly enjoy having FUN!!!!!!!
You know what really makes me want to vomit? This guy took advantage of many good hard working peoples money to reach his level of status. "If it's TRUE" that is. But he doesn't realize that as soon as his EGO and STUPIDITY gets around, he will go back to the life style he had prior to his success. I look forward to his information, I will post an INDIRECT video regarding his IGNORANCE!!!!
Randy, continue doing what you have been doing, and whenever you feel like sharing some words of WISDOM, hit my page. I have NEVER FORGOTTEN where I started from, and the MANY who are behind me waiting to move up.
Take care, and god Bless
Jose
yessirree!
Ain't residual GRAND? I prefer compound interest myself, but compounding efforts is awesome too!
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL "RECRUITLIKECRAZY" THAT HE IS FREAKING ANNOYING WITH HIS STUPID AD ON THE RIGHT HAND SIDE!
Maybe if NOBODY on Better Networker clicks on his ad, he will take it off.
C'mon everybody! Let's show this joker the DOOR.
Hype gets you nowhere.