Don't Blame Attraction Marketing, You Just Suck!



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It's normal to not get things quite right when you are starting out. Everyone sucks in the beginning of all things. You remember learning how to walk, feed yourself? Maybe thats a little too far back for you. But what about playing football, the violin, skating or riding a bike?

Some of us still have the bruises to prove we never stopped trying... and we also never blamed the bike or the road!

Well how about learning for to master the application of attraction marketing? It's being blamed for all types of business failures and frustrations.

Is it due to misinformation or low reading comprehension skills? Is one a symptom of the next?

Lets explore the subject when it comes to attraction marketing in this article.

There is a post in the BetterNetworker forums I read today that is titled, "Attraction Marketing Killed My Business". I must say, that although I understood the point of what the author was saying about not limiting ourselves to just one form of marketing, the principles of attraction marketing are grossly misrepresented.

Is it from misinformation or lack of comprehension or the content?

Like others, even some who have read top notch marketing and prospecting courses like Magnetic Sponsoring, the author has a limited his understanding of what attraction marketing is.

And What EXACTLY Is Attraction Marketing?

But before I get it to what it is, lets clear up what it is NOT.

Attraction Marketing Is Not...

Slaving away at creating great free content then waiting passively for someone to have mercy on you for being so gracious and giving and throw a few pennies your way...

NOPE.

It's not about being afraid to promote a product, service or business opportunity to other people.

It is not wishful thinking nor is it some new magic formula.

Here's what Attraction Marketing is:

A way to communicate only with the people who are already seeking what you have to offer and have them feel comfortable enough to initiate contact with you based on their perception of mutual benefit, instead of you trying to create or even identify interest.

Now if you can do that then it doesn't matter which form of media or advertising you use.

I want to make that clear so I'll repeat:

It doesn't matter which form of media or advertising you use!

It can be blogging, social media, forum marketing, press releases, e-bay, funded proposals, article marketing, telephone prospecting, video marketing, ezine advertising, websites, pay-per-click, even person-to-person in your face prospecting is all included in attraction marketing.

 

Since when did attraction start to mean only free advertising, passive promotion or obscuring your true intentions to ask for the sale?

Please, Don't Miss The Trees For The Forest

Nowhere in attraction marketing is there a limit to you using low or zero ROI form of marketing. As a matter of fact, if you aren't seeing a healthy ROI after your systems are in place then I submit to you that you marketing isn't very attractive at all.

The question is: Is it attractive to your target market?

Do you even know who your target market is for you products, services and business?

If your just spinning your wheels after months of throwing up virtual trash and wondering why only the bar flies and maggots are calling to "reverse prospect" you then, well.... look at your content!

Here are some problems I see occurring often with people who are having poor results with attraction marketing.

1. Undefined or too general target market.
2. A "MeToo" marketing message where you sound like everyone else.
3. Lack of understanding of exactly what to do/say.
3. Poor tracking
4. Poor or no planning before choosing/creating a marketing system
5. Broke and broke minded

Shocking, I know!

So why put your lack of success on your misconception of the timeless, proven and profitable principles of attraction marketing? Contrary to what the author of the above mentioned post said, there is no other more direct form of marketing.

What could be more straight forward than communicating with people who are not only predisposed to your offer but already actively seeking your solutions?

Here are a few alternatives...

Calling $0.02 leads, sending out spam to your friends list? Posting in the biz op section of social communities (where not even the other posters browse)? Wringing your names list one more time? I'm sure there's someone on your "chicken" list you haven't accosted yet.

No thanks!

There is nothing more cost effective, more straight forward and more direct response than a laser targeted marketing campaign. No hard close techniques will cultivate win-win personal and business relationships like what has been labeled as "attraction marketing".

If it "appears" not to be working for you it's surely based on a mis understanding or a lack of comprehension not on on the techniques that are based on principles as old as evolution of time.

If you'd like a review of your attraction marketing campaign or you'd like to get yours started right connect with me at malika@savvybusinessmom.com. For a private invitation to the zero spam tolerance, hype free attraction marketing training forum indicate that in your subject line.

Malika Duke

www.getpaidtoprospectonline.com

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Comments



Oh Malika, I laughed, I cried. Please do it again!

Thank you. You are always an inspiration.

Although on occasion I still have a problem locating my own mouth, I don't have a problem looking in the mirror to see who's responsible for finding it. (Bad fork!)

I'll be sending you an email today, watch for it. ;-)

RICK

Lynn and Rick Lelchuk
Miami, FL, USA

Rick Lelchuk — Wed, 01/21/2009 - 1:21pm

Rather Interesting Title....

I sense your title has a hidden message in it (but I may be wrong lol). I read thru that forum topic too, and I kinda couldn't figure out what it was really about. How could Attraction Marketing kill a business? The subjects went from marketing to leadership.....which were all requirements to run a business.....EVEN A BUSINESS W/O A FACE!!

The thing is....people don't have systems in place (maybe that's a good thing considering what I'm working on). Everyone has one though, or at least offers one. I thought I was the last person on earth to buy M.S. but apparently I wasn't. I almost felt like I was the first person on earth (second to you that is) that understood what Mike Dillard was really talking about. Your passion for this industry shows through your work. You are indeed a bully, but the way I see it, you have to be. People only get the point when they're being pushed.........getting them to push themselves is the problem.

Mike Morgan — Wed, 01/21/2009 - 1:25pm

LOL Rick!

Did Lynn put you up to this?! :-). I don't mind spoon (or fork) feeding those who are more action and less talk. I'll hit you back when I get the email.

Until you find your voice,

Malika

Magnetic Sponsoring and Building-On-A-Budget for dummies? Learn Attraction Marketing click-by-click www.recessionproofincome.com
InterNetwork Marketing = www.GetPaidToProspectOnline.com

Malika Duke — Wed, 01/21/2009 - 1:41pm

What an insult!

Malika - thanks for the headsup on this article that you were able to publish that "insults" networkers.  LOL, not quite.  I like how you explained it... A LOT.  Business is about profitablity, and asking for the sale must happen at some point.  Like what Tom said yesterday.. some networkers are just waiting to die, so to speak.  It's a CHOICE that each person needs to make and reflect that choice thru action.

Thanks for sharing.

Jerry

Jerry Chen — Wed, 01/21/2009 - 4:06pm

First a bully, Now Insulting!

Jerry,

I read the title and I was ready to fight! ha ha ha ha ha. First Mike calls me a bully, then you say I'm insulting people... If you can't stand the heat... You know the rest ;-)

Thanks for the rivetting conversation last night! You were the only one that was tired and it was so early for you...

Did we wear you out ;-)

Malika

Magnetic Sponsoring and Building-On-A-Budget for dummies? Learn Attraction Marketing click-by-click www.recessionproofincome.com InterNetwork Marketing = www.GetPaidToProspectOnline.com

Malika Duke — Wed, 01/21/2009 - 4:50pm

Very nice

I dig the article malika. Very skilled writer. Informative and entertaining.

Your right, people try way to hard to BE an attractive person. When it's really just a state of mind. It's a mindset that must be worked on and eventually, over time, usually without realizing it immediately, you come off as a very attractive person.

The work part comes when you actually have to learn different marketing skills(blogging, video marketing, articles, ppc, etc.). This is personally how I've grown as a network marketer. I went from promoting my business on classifieds hoping for a view fews, to knowing how to develope my own marketng systems for my primary target market.

I've learned it's best to specialize in one target market at a time until you get really good at it, and then focus some attention on other markets. Don't try to do 8 different target markets at once.

By the way, checked out one of your videos, strong presence, very attractive female :-)

Josef Benjamin — Wed, 01/21/2009 - 11:23pm

Thank You Josef

Now if I can only get past my hardware and softwear issues with all those non-working computers in my house, I'll be able to put up more videos! Thats why evey one who's even concidering PPC Domination should get it though my link... I want that Mac Air dude! LOL

 

Malika

Magnetic Sponsoring and Building-On-A-Budget for dummies? Learn Attraction Marketing click-by-click www.recessionproofincome.com InterNetwork Marketing = www.GetPaidToProspectOnline.com

Malika Duke — Thu, 01/22/2009 - 1:19am