How Many Arrows in Your Back do you Have?



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Well that is a good question for a Newbie.  How many Arrows are in Your Back. 

What exactly is a Arrow.  Well ask any Seasoned Networker they know what they are.

How many Arrows did they take till they Made it?

As many as it took.

Michael Dlouhy took 12 years of failing had his downlines taken away twice

Mike Dillard had his Share.  He started as a waiter.  I am sure he gets his share of hate mail.

John De lemmi Had to learn to Talk 1st he was a stutter.

Dani Johnson was a abused Child and Jilted wife.  And their are People who do not like her.  And are jealous of her success.

So What will it take to make you quit?

When people put you down.

Will that make you quit?

I wonder how many of the Great MLM Leaders have been accused of things  that are not true.

When you become popular you are a threat to the people who do not come from Abundance

you are a Threat to those who do not believe in the Law of Attraction

that there is enough for everyone.  You are a Threat.  Can you get through that?

My Mentors Warned me this Day would happen and they said do not give up!

and neither should you.  Not everyone is gonna like you or Believe you.

That is OK.

You can not Let those Kind of People have any ifluence on Your Desision for Greatness

I know I won't.

I have heard these teachers tell me over and over again STAY AWAY From

Negitive People who do not like you.

Do not let them throw up on you.

Negitive People are only good for one thing and that is to help you see were you can grow.

So Get over it  anouther Day at the Office. Just  anouther Arrow in Your Back.

I Have had two Years of arrows in my Back trying to figure this thing out

I still do not have my Families Support

I am a Grandmother and mother

I came from a abusive home

What will I do?

I have alot of Arrows in my back.

How many Arrows will it take before I am as Successful as some of these Great Leaders?

As many as it Takes.  Nothing or No one will stop me.  I am on a mission to Save Peoples Dreams

and to save them from the Stuff that goes on on the internet.  I am sure I will have many more arrows to face.  Oh well I am in good Company.  The Best Leaders Have been through Hell they just did not Pitch a Tent.

Your friend for Life Juanita Waterman

 

 

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Comments

Like Cupid

 lets make the arrows, arrows of love! Shoot your enemy with love, you don't have to hang around them, but love them all the same?  Didn't the greatest networker in history teach that 2000 years ago?  Why can't we get it right?

Paul Murphy — Sat, 04/04/2009 - 5:53pm

I was listening to a

I was listening to a facinating woman (as usual her name escapes me now) and she had a very interesting approach to dealing with what you call arrows.

What she did was ask people to ask people to write down the top four barriers to them making progress. In this case it was relationships but it works in other fields.

Lets say an arrow was a friend saying you would not be successful in your business venture. Now intiially your reaction might be to blame them for being negative and possibly get sucked into the negativity. Some people say you can deal with this this by tolerating zero negativity but only very confident and well placed people can practically do this.

What she suggested was to turn the question round - and this is the tough bit but I have been doing it for two weeks and getting results. I ask myself the question what is it that I said or do that makes that person think about me? Even try and test the question out on the person if you can. This is a massively libertating process because you can then attract the person to you be dealing with the points and they end up being your biggest supporters.

I put that out there as a positive possibility. I have thumbs up your great article.

Andrew Peel — Sat, 04/04/2009 - 10:05pm

Arrows in your back

Fore the most part only people that are successful get shot in the back. It is a result of the jealousy of those whose fears keep them down. To me it is a sign of ones greatness and most will never discus the attack.

Thanks for the thought.

JEALOUSY…is the tribute MEDIOCRITY… pays to EXCELLENCE.

From The heart
Elwood

Elwood Crane — Sun, 04/05/2009 - 6:38pm

Great article Juanita

I also appreciate comments by Paul, Andrew & Elwood....this is obviously a timely topic.  It is sometimes difficult to remember to focus on the positive and keep on keeping on.  Its hard to continue to disregard the advice of family (who love you and want what is best for you - I know that!) but are wedded to the concept of getting a JOB. 

I find myself talking less and less to others who are not in the MLM or online marketing.  We are in a different universe and I cant be bothered explaining or defending it....to 'others'.

I am grateful for all the positive and supportive people and resources on line.

I love this way of spending my time...and I continue to keep my eye on my vision.

All the best everyone

Rachel Cormier

604-820-1032

Mission BC Canada

rc rc — Mon, 04/06/2009 - 1:53pm

great post

You are standing strong girl!  Forge ahead.  I've heard it said.....If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything.

I also don't have much support from family and have come from a background that didn't encourage me to go for my dreams, let alone to dream at all.  I think my dad was a red.  There was one way to do things and it was his way.  God rest his soul.

I am finally having the time of my life, stepping out and going for more!  After you pass fifty and I did that awhile ago, you can do whatever you want.  That's my philosophy. 

I love your enthusiasm.

Your friend,

Lynn

Lynn Jones — Mon, 04/06/2009 - 8:25pm

Wow

 I know one thing I have to repeat as an affirmation from a great mentor of mine daily is:

"It is none of my business what other people think about me, my only business is what I think about myself." Then each day continue to work hard on myself and check my list with people I trust.

Connie Loeschen

Connie Loeschen — Tue, 04/21/2009 - 1:50pm

Remember what Freud said

"Many enemies, great honor." Could have said many arrows. . .

Tony Lauria

Tony Lauria — Fri, 07/10/2009 - 6:54pm

Thank you Tony, Connie, Rachel, Elwood, Paul and Lynn

Stand Tall There is Greatness in All of us!

Juanita Waterman — Sat, 11/13/2010 - 8:43am
 

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