How To Social Network without Driving Your Friends List Away

Hello Everyone!

I hope this message finds you all well.  I wanted to take a moment and send you all the following Public Service Message...

Day by day, I log into my social network accounts to find many messages in my Inbox.  Excitedly, I open my Inbox thinking I've received messages from people I've been trying to connect with and get to know.  To my dismay I find... spam.  <heavy sigh>

Now some of these messages are very clever.  Some are offering free incentives, some have given kudos to an anti-spam post only to follow-up with their business opportunity, others give information to get you into their auto-responder.

Folks, I'm here to tell you that spam is spam no matter how you try to sugar-coat it.

What I am finding amusing is that people have taken the old school 3 foot rule of network marketing and have transposed it online... and are calling it Web2.0 technique.

People, spamming your friends list is not NetWebMarketing.

It's spam.

To tell you quite honestly, I'm looking for leaders or those that aspire to be leaders on my team or to associate myself with.  Not just another warm body and certainly not spammers. 

When you spam your friends list, it does not portray leadership skills... it portrays desperation. 

Those of you that are as successful in your businesses as I am are probably nodding your heads in agreement.  Those of you that are not as successful are probably angry with this message.

I ask you not to be angry.  It's not your fault that you feel you have to spam.  You probably don't know any better because this is what your "leadership" has been telling you to do and nobody has shown you the proper way to network.  So I ask you to take the time and learn true NetWebMarketing techniques. 

Once you have portrayed yourself as a true leader, the sign-ups will follow.  If you continue to portray yourself as a spammer, you may start to see your friends list dwindling.  Before you know it, you will have nobody on your friend's list left to spam and will have tarnished your name in the social network community.

Until Next Time,

Tula Rainwater