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The implication seems to be that while physical appearance seems so important, these days. Being attractive finally occurs more for the type of characteristics that we practice (interior attitudes, confidence, and integrity) than how we look physically, (exterior beauty, clothing, etc).

Anyone who has lived for a while knows that in human relationships, your character or integrity is what makes relationships work. Integrity is what can be relied upon much more so than how a friend, spouse, partner, neighbor, employer, etc. “looks”.

It also seems to me that our inner attitudes and integrity, compassion, and confidence must first be
practiced on ourselves before it yields anything of substance. For instance, I can set about to practice compassion toward others. If I do not practice compassion toward myself first, then the compassion that I think I am practicing toward others is finally just another exterior practice for others
to see—in hopes that I might impress someone. If I practice compassion on myself first, then I begin to appreciate what real compassion is. Then, when I am compassionate toward another, it comes from a very different place. It is genuine. My compassion has integrity. The other person feels the difference,
and knows that there has been a genuine interchange between us. This is how I feel when I am with someone.

Physical appearance cannot have that kind of effect on others. Remember, Virtue gives what physical appearance denies. Remember you are selling yourself and offering a solution to people problems.

Be yourself, be unique and most importantly, believe, have hope and have faith.  You will succeed. 

Therese Catanzano

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About the Author: Therese Catanzano

Member Since: 11/24/2008

Industry: Marketing and Advertising

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The very best reason...

...to look in the mirror is to see someone you would like to do business with, someone you care about and have compassion for. As Therese says: "If I practice compassion on myself first, then I begin to appreciate what real compassion is. Then, when I am compassionate toward another, it comes from a very different place. It is genuine. My compassion has integrity." Wonderful insight. Thanks!

Lyn Mullins — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 12:25am

This is deep.

So true, outward beauty is only skin deep, but beauty on the inside goes so much further, like you say. Integrity and compassion speak volumes about who we really are and how we relate to others. Thank you Therese. You are a woman of compassion and integrity.

Lynn Jones — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 12:28am

You might really enjoy Frank Kern's message

If you can get past his language, his message is the connection with the "Core" of another. Amazing information that just takes everything to a deeper level. His video was free from Richard Bravo and is still on the BN home page.
Excellent stuff.
Have a great day,
Joyce

Joyce Penner — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 6:06am

I like this Therese, you

I like this Therese, you must first love yourself, this is so important but it is one of the hardest challenges to conquer.

Stefanie Sanspree — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 8:12am

ON & OFF LINE MARKETING IS ABOUT YOU!!

To become more you must be more.

Ernie Giordano — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 8:25am

If I do not love the Gifts I have

It will make it hard to recognize and appreciate yours.
Thanks Therese this is Powerful!
Your friend for life Juanita Waterman

Juanita Waterman — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 8:37am

you are a Fabulous teacher

You are always giving to others it is good to see you understand about giving to yourself too! Love J

Juanita Waterman — Fri, 06/25/2010 - 9:13am

People Join People Not Companies

Integrity is Big in this Industry! In order to have Integrity You must have Conviction. Believe in Yourself and Others will Believe in You!

Nicholas Moniz — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 8:59am

Sell myself

Would I join myself in business? I hope that I would have done enough self development and have had enough growth that people would join me. Great info, thanks.

Vikki Lawson — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 9:11am

I Love YOU!

The most powerful words I can say in the mirror each day! It took me about a year of personal development to beable to look myself in the eyes and say those 3 beautiful words. Now I am able to love others the way they deserve to be loved! I love YOU!

Jenny Wudtke — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 11:21am

Love Yourself

If you can't love and appreciate yourself first it makes it difficult to truly love and appreciate everyone else and to receive that love in return. Be happy with who you are, after all there's only one.

Zelphina Pierson — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 12:14pm

People buy People!

If you are fake they see it. Thanks Therese

Timothy Burns — Tue, 03/09/2010 - 10:35pm
 

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