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From Product to People - the MLM Paradigm Shift
For those in network marketing who are programmed to "lead with the product" or "lead with the opportunity", it might be the most difficult thing to do to convince yourself how or why this is not necessarily correct. You may not yet realize that this is one of the primary reasons why so many people struggle to find real success in network marketing.
The focus on product and opportunity is so engrained in the old school MLM psyche that it seems logical and natural to lead with the product, and to coin the phrase, "the product sells itself".
Well, the word to notice in that statement is "sells".
If you want leaders to join your business and become part of a growing team, then 'sell' is the last thing you should be doing. If you want to just retail the product then of course selling makes more sense. Not to displace the importance of a good product when it comes to success in a network marketing business however, but you are your most important asset. Noone likes to be sold.
The truth is, albeit not completely overlooked in most MLM companies, is that it is a people business. But they never tell you to lead with yourself. When in truth, you are who your prospect is judging first. Not your product. Not your opportunity. People join you.
They call it relationship marketing for a reason. Yet they only pay lip service to the the fact that it is a people business, and give you no training on how to first capture their interest, determine whether they are a valid prospect and right for your business, or how to coach and mentor that person according to their personality. They tell you to support and train your team but never give you the tools or knowledge to do that correctly.
Product brochures and opportunity presentations are not people skill training! Inspriational and motivational books are only a way to spur you on in your misdirected activities, when they would take on an entirely new meaning if you only knew how to lead with yourself, and how to understand, work with, and train your prospects.
I don't mean to completely dismiss the warm market or the value of the product (it must be a product that stands out from the crowd to drive a successful network marketing business). It's just that the shift from the exclusive product lead must change when working in the internet marketing arena, where the instant connections and friendships that are made can't be compared to your true warm market. Therefore the lead in the case of online marketing must be you. Think about your warm market. You are already leading with yourself. People still join you because of who you are.
Lead capture can be done from the product angle as well; leading with the product shouldn't be entirely overlooked when addressing your product's specific target market. But if you are not working with your existing warm market (who already like and trust you), then you have to lead with yourself first, and then your product.
You will want to have something to offer that other people need, and to be able to provide that, you'll want a lead capture and auto-response system. But you may be struggling with the thought that you don't have anything of value to offer, either as a funded proposal or even free. Hello! As a person you certainly have much to offer!
Think of all of the acconplishments you've had, no matter how insignificant you may think, and the struggles you have made it through. Think of all the people you have supported and helped over the years. You are valued, worthwhile and deserve success even if you do not think so or fully believe it. But, still, maybe you say you aren't as internet savvy as some of the experts out there, so that leading with yourself may seem a bit of a stretch.
So that's why systems like Better Web Builder (with free capture pages, training and auto responder emails) and My Lead System Pro (industry favorite) come in.
The value proposition for people using these systems is that they give you exactly what you need to become successful in network marketing. They provide the ability for you to duplicate yourself in the activity, the only way that you will ever succeed in this business. They provide training that you can use for personal growth and success in this business, along with your downline, and include a value proposition to generate your own leads.
Once you put your system into place, your market has become not product centric but people centric. You are providing value to people who are already in network marketing and looking for your solution. This makes them highly targeted and qualified leads. Well then you might say, 'but they are already in a network marketing company!'
Well, of course not everyone will be interested in your business, but look at the numbers of MLM companies that fail, or lose their integrity, or fail their distributor base in some way (change the policies and procedures or comp plan, or go public).
Look at the number of people simply failing in network marketing because they have never been taught how to be a professional in this business. Look at the number of people out of work and looking for some way to make ends meet in this day and time. Look at how many of them never knew that leading with a product or opportunity was the reason they most often fail!
Look at the numbers that have never known the right way to use the internet to reach their market, the ones that want to build a business. The way even some of the more modern MLM companies use the internet is still only to provide for product ordering, enrollment and back office functions. Some even provide company replicated web sites, which as newer network marketers realize, cannot be maniuplated to achieve SEO. But lead capture? Hardly.
Once this product -> to -> people epiphany finally occurs, you are on your way. Until then, you may continue chasing your friends, family and co-workers. But when you begin to get your own qualified, targeted leads by leading with yourself online, and coaching others to do the same, you will be amazed at how quickly things change.
About the Author: Vicki Berry
Member Since: 03/28/2009
I'm a Distributor For:: SISEL International, LLC
Other Company: Empower Network
Industry: No Industry Selected
Primary Web Site: http://MLMDreamSaver.com


Good article Vicki
I like the way you write. I would have agreed with you 100% a year ago and the exciting thing about progressing on a journey, any journey, is the growth that takes place with each step. The training was the item I was missing. I now sift and sort and let the ones who meet my qualifications get to know me and I them. I used to waste a whole pile of time thinking everyone was a prospect for my business or product and therefore spent an extraordinary amount of time on people who wouldn't be a candidate. I have never heard of the term you use "relationship marketing". I am in network marketing - networking with people marketing my product or opportunity. Best way to make the residual income we are all striving for!!
To your success,
Joyce Penner
www.joycepenner.com
Thanks!
I actually heard the term 'relationship marketing' in my current MLM company, because they are trying to avoid the 'network marketing' as it's had such a bad rap (so many who do not succeed in it, or too many people that didn't want to be 'sold' to). But they still preach to lead with the product.
And yes, it's nice to work with the ones you can determine are valid prospects and that want to join you, rather than waste time trying to convince everyone on the product or opportunity!
Wishing you every success!
Vicki
Great Content
Vicki,
You are right on target with this post, as many people in the industry still are stuck on the industrial mentality way of thinking. It is absolutely necessary in any business for relationships to be built. People have to be confident in us before they decide to partner with us. I see so many people continue to think that their product or compensation plan is going to be the glue that gets their prospect to stick. That doesn't seem to be the case anymore in the new information age. People have access to the internet and can research any company, product, or person. It is imperative for people in this industry to understand the value of marketing and branding thierselves through relationship marketing.
Thanks for the valued content,
Jason Torres
Thankyou Jason!
Jason,
Thanks so much for the positive feedback. I think this is a point that just needs making over and over again with so many who have even yet to transition to doing business with attraction marketing. As the ideals don't appear as clear cut as some product or company information, they do bear repeating! (And some product and company information, not to mention, compensation plans, is really a smoke-screen!)
Thanks again, here's wishing you every success!
Vicki
I like this article Vicki!
Spoken like a true leader who really "gets it" when it comes to adding value. You touched on a subject many networkers, including myslf, couldn't get for a long time: The value in not in the business, but in the relationships of the people in the business.
Thank you for enriching our community by spreading the message of attraction marketing at it's finest!
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Thankyou Sweet Malika!
Actually I had to write this because of the difficulty I had in really getting it, so much old school ingrained in me... and the online presence so hard to define.
I was reminded by Joyce, and so then tweaked the article to highlight that the warm market is still important, but in making the shift online it's much harder to put the real 'you' out there! This is the challenge I think a lot of us face. But thanks to the wonderful mentoring in this community, I was helped along until I finally got the big picture!