When YOu Decide to Shame People You are not a Better Networker
Read More: I was reading something in the Forums about Spammers and actually Shaming them.
Well when extreme Hate is involved that is Shameful.
Do you actually know the person you shamed ?
you do not know he has a daughter in the Hospital with Leukimia
That he suffers from severe Depression and is Diagnosed with Autism
They do not know that he is an abused child
They do not know he is a child called it.
They do not know that he suffers panic attachs from the trama in his life
It reminds me of the Bullies that bullied the girl onlne till she killed her self
Why would anyone want to be part of that kind of work
This is suppose to be Better Networkers
not lets Hang them and Tar and Feather the People we see as spammers
Just removing them should be enough.
It was Hate filled not Love filled.
But I think the Book "Success in 10 Steps" Is the reason for all the hate.
If the book he was promoting was Mag Sponsering or Ann Seigs book I think they would not have included the book in the shaming process
The book Success in 10 steps is a Threat to every Networker that does not want people to learn the numbers and Understand P and P's
There I said it and I do not care if this makes you Mad.
It saddens me that we have not learned how powerful we are as a community. That some have felt the need to take severe actions like Public shaming.
I hope the things I said about the Spammer are not true. But if they are you have just added to his burden and it would of just been easier to report him and let it go. It would of been the Better Networker Thing to do
there I said it!!!
Juanita Waterman
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This really does get you
This really does get you thinking.
Thanks for sharing Juanita
Marc Ward
Sensationalization? To what end?
You don't know Richard very well do you? Hate is not a part of his vocabulary in that or any other article he has ever contributed. I have rarely met a more compassionate and caring man, so not sure why you felt you needed to sensationalize your opinion by creating some fictitious background for the guy. (?)
Careful
We have to be very careful when we write articles or blogs in this BN room. I have seen very harsh criticism, and spam from just about everyone in this network. This room was designed for the more experienced and not so experienced net-worker. This room was created for other's to get help with their opportunity, or maybe find another one.
This room facilitates equality-or it should. Jason Better send's out "buy this program now for $600 discount or your dumb if you don't" emails....is that spam? or is it excepted because HE is the FOUNDER of the Site?
We love it! it's funny-hilarious,comical and provides us with confidence in some of our networking approaches.
So why bash someone for promoting his idea, belief, company, system or service?
Maybe the lesson for all today, should be to remember that we all have feelings. Even in responding to this post, remember that Ms. Juanita has feelings, that Richard has feelings,Joyce has feelings, Donna has feelings, the readers have feelings. We all need to add value through encouragement, fun, enlightenment, power, empowerment-the list could go on.
Play fair-all. There is enough swings on this playground.
It is not necessary to go up and down on the see-saw of frustration when networking in a power network like the BN.
Give every one a turn on the slide, swing, and merry go around. We will all enjoy the playground and really make some incredible friends.
Hope this all made sense.
Smooches
~ME~
I'm finally starting to see the picture
Hi Joyce,
I have not been around very long but for the length of time I have been around I've seen quite a bit of you. I remember in my first days of posting articles you would pay a complement and then critize it in the same breath. I, in my belief in the basic honor and integrity of people, welcomed your criticism and made adjustments to my work thinking that your input was coming from a place of wanting to be helpful.
Over time a clear pattern has emerged. I realize there is something far deeper going on here. If I can see it then surely others can as well and it's not something that can be worn well.
Negative feelings are like boomerangs that always return and embed themselves in the source. Its far healthier to just let it go.
All the best
Jasmeen
Playing Nice
It makes perfect sense, Michaela! Well said
Well Said Juanita !
You get more flies with honey than you do with vinegar !
I'd much rather stay in a positive mindset than to go over to
"The Dark Side"
Your Gladiator In Battle
Steven Squillace
I learned it all in kindergarten
When I was 5 yrs old my teacher taught us to play nice. It made good sense, because I had heard the same lesson at home. That simple lesson continues to serve me well.
Play Nice
All I know is I want to be around Happy, Positive, Loving people. There are plenty of people that are those qualities and I associate with them as much as I can because that is the type of person I want to be around. I don't want to be negative and hateful all the time- I would have NO friends!
Good point Juanita, Who are we to judge????
Juanita, you make a great point here and Michaela you have made a great point also. Everyone should play nice. Here on BN we are here to give value, not to judge or convict! There is enough of the internet to go around for everyone, and you are right Juanita, no one knows really who the person really is.We should be giving value. I have to agree with most of the comments. Thank you for your input and value.
If we can't help each other then why are we here?
We are a community of Network Professionals. We have to help each other. Thanks Juanita