Changing Your Thought Process Can Bring Positive Results
Our thoughts are so powerful. It is our thoughts that can ground us, thus leaving us stationary in our lives. If we practice changing our thought process and outlook, we can experience positive results, allowing us to move forward in life.
The key to this is... practice being more positive. We tend to focus too much of our energies on the demands of life and everyday stresses. When we do this... we surround ourselves with negative energy. Our bodies are built like a tuning fork. We attract and repel positive and negative energies.
For example... if we were to allow ourselves to be present in a negative conversation concerning how our boss's behaviour is making us feel... angry, hurt, unappreciated, etc... we hold these unwanted, negative emotions within us because we are so focused on them. As a result... we tend to stay inside that box. We get so caught up in the drama that it becomes our world. What happened is that we attracted negative energy from our boss and then repelled that same energy... only to attract more negative energy.
Ever wonder how you have those days where from the moment you wake up to the time you go to bed, you have a constant flow of negative events, one thing after another? Well, guess what... you asked for it! By attracting and repelling.
So what if we were to practice blocking out those negative forces and start focusing on the positive aspects of our daily lives... what will happen?
I can remember an incident not long ago... it was Christmas day. I had just come out of an 8 year relationship. Well, I had my children for the first part of the day and I was to return them to their Mother where they were to spend the duration of the day. I was a little late returning them due to traffic because of the weather. As it turns out... the Mother was not too impressed. After saying goodbye to my kids and leaving... I received a phone call from the Mother. She was upset, angry, and complaining and carrying on... she was talking my ear off with hurtful words.
I began to feel my blood boil, and my temperature rise. I was starting to fall into this drama! Then I caught myself. So, what did I do... I turned the table. I did not partake in this realm of negative energy flowing from her. It was Christmas day, for crying out loud! So... I interrupted her by saying... "The kids had a great time! Merry Christmas, Di!" Then there was silence... What could she say to that...? After a long uncomfortable pause... she replied with... "Merry Christmas..." The conversation came to a pleasant end, and the rest of our day was a joyous one.
I was not going to allow her to ruin my day because she was upset. Those were her feelings... not mine. So why partake in her drama? I blocked out her energies and traded it with positive ones and the outcome was such a great feeling. Two things happened... I had her forget about the pain she was experiencing allowing her to not ruin her Christmas day with her children due to some unwanted and silly feeling ... and I went throughout the rest of my day feeling great, as well.
If we were to practice focusing on the positive things in life... our days would be much more rewarding. For example... being more appreciative for the things we already have rather than what we do not have. Appreciating the beauty in the world we live will stir up positive energies. The exchange of an uplifting smile with a stranger can make a huge impact on both parties.
Lets face it... the more positive energy one omits... then the more positive energies one can receive. I don't know about you... but I am quite attracted to those people who give off such powerful energies... And if you want to attract people and build relationships... then we must start tuning our inner forks. We are like magnets... and which ever field we point... then that is what we shall attract!
You would be amazed how much positive change will occur if we were to only change our thought process. If there is any kind of secret why people become successful in their business... I would have to say... this would be the magic to all success in the world!
Wishing Everyone Good Health And Prosperity
About the Author: Derek Fobert
Member Since: 11/24/2008
Company: Max International & Living Company
Industry: MLM
Primary Web Site: http://www.sozomax.com/41506


I agree!
Nice one Derek!
I agree - it's all about the way you CHOOSE to look at things!
What we do, and don't do, and the way we do it (and don't do it) will always be having an effect somewhere... let's try to make that effect a good one!
Either look for the positive intent in what somebody does or says, or give them a chance to express a positive intent by what you do & say!
Cheers
Martin
Mindset
That is it my friend... Having the correct mindset, is what sets you up for success or failure... Buying into someone's opinion is buying into their lifestyle... And if you want to be successful, then buy into successful like minded opinions... Way to give her a postitive response through all the hurt words she was feeding you.. By not buying into her opinion, she had no choice but to say Merry Christmas back to you... That is the mark of a True Leader, taking the proper steps to aquire the correct mindset which in turn gives the positive feedback... Great work, and great content..
To Your Continued Success
JR
Thoughts Manifest
It is so true that you are what you think. I'll leave you with a few of my favorite quotes which illustrate this same thought.
A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes. -Gandhi
You cannot escape the results of your thoughts. Whatever your present environment may be, you will fall, remain or rise with your thoughts, your vision, your ideal. You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant aspiration. - James Lane Allen
Man, alone, has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality; man, alone, can dream and make his dreams come true. -Napoleon Hill
The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts. -Marcus Aurelius