Are You a Charming Attraction Marketer in Your Network Marketing Business?
Read More: Do charisma and attraction marketing go hand in hand?
What is charisma? Most people think of charisma as something mystical, almost undefinable. They think it’s a quality you were born with or you don’t have it at all.
It is said that charisma, plain and simple is the ability to draw people to you. And like other character traits, it can be developed.
To make yourself the kind of person who attracts others, these pointers should be in your life.
1. Love Life
People enjoy others who enjoy life. Think of the people you want to spend time with. What kind of people are they? Grumpy? Bitter? Depressed? No, of course not. They are celebrators, not complainers. They love life and are passionate about it. If you want to attract people, you need to be like the people you enjoy being with.
2. Put a “10” on Every Person’s Head
Putting a “10” on everyone’s head is to expect the best of them. It helps others think more highly of themselves, and at the same time it also helps you. If you appreciate others, encourage them, and help them reach their potential, they will love you for it.
3. Give People Hope
Hope is the greatest of all possessions. If you can be the person who bestows that gift on others, they will be attracted to you, and they will be forever grateful.
4. Share Yourself
People love leaders who are open and share themselves and their experiences. As you relate and lead people, give of yourself. Share wisdom, resources, and even special occasions. In essence, offer value.
When it comes to Charisma, the bottom like is being other minded. Myself, I think charisma and attraction marketing do go hand in hand. When I think about the reasons I joined a group, company, church or system it was because I took a liking to someone or something.
With that I will just say, in Mentoring For Free I am finding that the people exhibit the four points listed above. If you haven’t inquired into what Mentoring For Free is all about, I invite you to. It could literally change your life.
Have we arrived yet? Are we perfect? No, but we are well on our way!
Love and enjoy life,
Lynn Jones
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About the Author: Lynn Jones
Member Since: 01/11/2009
I'm a Distributor For:: SISEL International, LLC
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Industry: MLM
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So True Lynn!
You need to be like the people that you want to attract! If you work on being more cheerful, and less negative, you will attract more cheerful people and repel the negative ones!
Personal growth fosters confidence, motivation and a willingness to help others. We should never feel that we've 'arrived', for if we stop growing we'll stop living!
Great post, thanks!
I Love This
Because not only is it good for your business relationships but your personal one's as well. Having those people in your life that are always complaining and are negative can be draining on your energy and your soul.While the opposite effect is present when you associate with positive happy people. Give me Energy, not death !!!
Thanks Lynn
I Love This too
This is something to ask ourselves through out the Day. With out it we can throw in the Towel. It is never to late to be more attractive. Those simple steps that you gave Lynn work!
Your friend for life Juanita Waterman
Great insight
If you incorporate those 4 qualities listed above, people will be attracted to you!! They will feel your energy :D
A simple lesson...
...but, like many things in life, simple doesn't mean easy. What I am learning, though, is that we can actually make "positivity" a habit. We can actually make "charisma" a habit. Easy? No... but well worth the effort. Thank you, Lynn, for helping me build my habit. :-D
You attract who you are!!
Lynn, this is a great post and with a personal touch. You will attract to what YOU are "like," in other words. Whatever interest, content, value, character, and quality, you display is what will be is attracted to you. If you want to draw high quality friendships, prospects, customers, etc. then produce a high quality, value, and uniqueness. Produce a quality YOU. I love your positive attitude. Great Value. Great Article,Lynn
Love people and you will feel great!
Thanks for sharing Lynn. These are great tenets to live by!
Open your mind to Prosperity!
Prosperity and Charisma go hand in hand, like a loving couple, one can't exist without the other.
Great article
I really enjoyed this. 99% of all people I meet are pretty bitter. They need this article on their headboard to see it every morning.
A Positive Mindset Can Exude Charisma!
I think this is the primary reason why attraction marketing is magnetic because when people are positive, they can exude charisma. It is a quality that cannot be found in negative people. Positive attracts only positive and it is critical for success. Thanks for sharing!
Avoiding Negative People
I for one am one that totally avoids any negative influences in my life and that includes ANY negative people or constant complainers. It's hard enough for me to stay upbeat and positive without someone always trying to bring me down. So I surround myself with people who give off lots of enthusiasm and compliments me when ever around. Great article.
Great ArticLe Lynn,
Keep Up The Good Work !
Really Nice Lynn!
It's amazing how putting a smile on your face will change the way most people look at you and react to you. It attracts like minded people that enjoy life :) Keep up the nice work Lynn!
I like the part about
I like the part about sharing hope. It reminds me why its important to know your WHY and to help your team members to know there WHY, it helps them to get to dreaming again.
Put a "10"...
Put a "10" on Every Person’s Head...First time I heard this great advice! Thanks Lynn.
Thank you!
I appreciate all your positive comments. Myself, I find these words to be something I should read on a daily basis. Our days get busy, we can get sidetracked and deviate from our reason we are in this business.....to help others. Be blessed!
Lynn - You are an absolutely beautiful writer
And each one of your points is very beneficial for everyone to read but how do you justify the whole premise of MFF is based on a negative approach of building your business?
Will anyone admit that when someone moves down your funnel they will be taught how "bad" their current company is and that yours is the "Only" perfect one?
Will anyone step up to the plate and admit that? Total negativity hidden under the "we will help and ultimately save you" banner.
Joyce
Lynn, Your Law of Attraction Has Failed!
Hi Lynn
You've written a great article that mentions charisma, charm, attraction, loving life, celebration, passion, expecting the best of people, appreciation, encouragement, reaching potential, love, hope, gifts, gratitude, sharing, leadership, wisdom, value, other mindedness, and striving for perfection.
Comments here have included being more cheerful and less negative, personal growth, confidence, motivation, helpfulness, becoming more attractive, love, insight, high quality friendships, praise, encouragement, upbeat people, enthusiasm, compliments, smiling, sharing hopes and dreams.
You and the commenters have all praised positive people and have warned against negative, depressed, grumpy and bitter complainers.
All have agreed that you attract who you are, but perhaps The Law of Attraction, unlike the Law of Gravity, is not at work all the time.
Despite all these positive thoughts and positive reinforcement, you have still managed to attract a bitter networker, a poison penner consumed by a relentless, all-consuming, inexplicable bitterness.
The most beautiful salad plate will still attract a few wasps.
Wasps are good at transparent flattery, but are not good at love or logic and tend to ignore opportunities to reflect and improve their lot in life. All we can do is keep swatting and hope they leave the picnic.
http://www.betternetworker.com/articles/view/mlm-news/companies/how-to-a...
Joyce like a can of Bug Spray!
It seems to me that Better Networker is a place of opportunity for idea sharing in a positive community where networkers inevitably form friendships and camaraderie develops among those who give valuable lessons to others! Better Networker is a community in which the best articles give some valuable idea that is uplifting or practical and useful. Lynn has done that and I applaud her! I feel so filled with gratitude that Joyce has come in here to allow this point to be made! Anna's picture of a fly swatter in hand has tickled my imagination too! I am seeing Joyce like a can of Bug Spray! Any can I've ever had on my shelf becomes empty when it is used up spraying out its poison!
Again: no answer just condemnation. Hmmmm
Will anyone step up to the plate and admit that? Total negativity hidden under the "we will help and ultimately save you" banner.
Admit it - the first thing any MFFer is trained to do is find out what company someone is in then run to the Dlouhyvita group or your upline and find the "gotchas" in the P&Ps and how many people it takes to make $10K. Then you have the ammunition to quietly introduce the perfect company to them.
Is anyone going to be big enough to admit that is the very foundation of MFF??
athough Your Question has nothing to do with Lynns Article
I will Admit I have never done what you are saying. In fact If you do You have an agenda and that will never work in this industry. So sorry to say if some choose to miss use mentoring for Free I have no control over that. We do educate so if anyone does want numbers or gotchas on a company we can help with that. But it is free help just the same.
There are no perfect companies. Just diffrent business models and some are perfect for some people. It is just to bad that you could not just enjoy Lynns article and leave it at that. You had to find a way to twist it. Is that so you can get people to come running to you for answers because you are so brilliant at being hurtful in a sly way? I am sorry you can not be happy for us. But know we have no bad feelings toward you. We believe you are doing the Best you Can. Sending you Love and Blessings we hope the best for you Joyce!
Juanita Waterman
Fixation
noun: an obsessive or unhealthy preoccupation or attachment.
(Merriam-Webster)
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Sounds like not everyone takes a positive approach
Joyce,
Thank you for the post. You have saved me the effort of checking it out to see if I might possibly have come to the wrong conclusion about MFF. My gut reaction has been to steer clear of it. I have been approached by many people on facebook about it and I have noticed several disturbing trends: condemning other companies (and training), condemning basically any color other than yellow (especially red), and as you said, the 'It's not my fault' mantra which goes totally against my values of personal responsibility. People fail in NWM because they don't take action. Period. You must take action to get the proper training, then you must take action and apply the training and knowledge you have acquired. Oh, and the 'mental cleanse' just has an unsettling cultish sound to it!
Just the name, Mentoring For Free, turns me off. Nothing is free. Even if they don't eventually get around to asking for money for something, time is money, and I'd rather not waste mine.
Thanks again,
Joetta