Have You Ever Been Lied To About Network Marketing?
Read More: The heavy hitter guru tells you that YOU have to change. You have to become this “A” type personality. You have to learn all these closing techniques. You have to become a salesperson. Make a list of your friends & family, call them up, beat ‘em up.
What they want to do is turn YOU into that pushy, aggressive salesperson that 92% of the world’s population can’t stand.
They say, “Make a list of 100 people.” But 92% of everybody is sales-resistant. Like you, for instance. You don’t like to sell, don’t like to be sold, and you’ll run from a salesperson. “Dive, dive, dive. Down periscope. Scotty, we’re outta here!”
Ninety-two percent of everybody will absolutely run.
Here’s the truth. YOU do not have to change. YOU are perfect just the way you are. Ninety-two per-cent of the world’s population has been listening to the other 8% … and the 8% are wrong.
We’ve had great success in network marketing, and here’s what I’d tell you.
You don’t have to change. You don’t have to become that “A” type personality. You don’t have to become a salesperson. All you need is to learn some skills, like how to understand the personalities. That is our “Colors” training, and it’s mandatory for your success. You can also use it to be more successful in your relationships with your parents and your children and your in-laws and your spouse.
And that skill translates to success right in your network marketing business.
When I talk to someone and tell them, “It’s not your fault,” I can hear the relief in their voice. It’s reality. They don’t have to change. They are perfect, just as they are. They don’t have to get out of their comfort zone.
You only need to learn the skills we teach … and learn to believe in yourself. And we know how to get you there, too. Most people don’t believe that they really deserve success. How can you get there if you think you don’t deserve it?
So we help them get to the point where they know they deserve success, and then they welcome it. And once they have the skills we teach at Mentoring For Free, it’s not hard for them to take action.
Those heavy hitters will keep telling you to “make a list, buy leads, call 100 people a day, yada, yada, yada …”. Do I have one question for you:
Do you LOVE selling to people? Do you LOVE to have people sell to you?
If your answer is “No,” then that system absolutely will not work for you. It only works for the 8 per-centers. And in that group, only about 2% can actually DO what they’re telling the rest of the world to do.
The gurus are lying when they tell you that you can build big this way. You can’t. The truth is, no one does, because it is absolutely not duplicatable.
But the good news is, you don’t have to do it that way. Just be yourself, learn a few skills, and YOU can build big. I’m living proof.
Blessings to you, I learned this from my friend and mentor Michael Dlouhy
Steven Squillace shared this info with me check him out on Facebook
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About the Author: Juanita Waterman
Member Since: 03/07/2008
I'm a Distributor For:: SISEL International, LLC
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I make lots of Mistakes. I am glad that I have so many people I can learn from
I Love Me!
So often we see the heavy hitters telling us to do more of it, your not talking to enough people, you need to go get the door slammed in your face 100 times before you get a "yes." Your article said it all, I am perfect just the way I am! I love being me and each of us are so unique, all carrying special talents and skills that bring fruit and abundance. Thank you so much for those resources, I will pass them on to everyone I know who is SERIOUS about building a business~
I Love Me Too
Steven, Brillant article and refreshing. It is very important how important it is to love yourself. When you don't love yourself, how can you possibly help anyone else. It is a great Article with Excellent Content. Thank you for Value
I can me?
Wow what a relief that is. Yes, that is what Mentoring for Free taught me too. Once I was OK with me, then I was able to take the skills MFF teaches to find a company where my success is just as important as the companies success, apply the skills from "Big Al" and in came the money! I love being me. Great article Steven.
Who's fault is it ?
If it's not yours? Did you not make the decision to get involved with no education? Did you not make the decision to ..........? Your circumstances, your situation is directly connected to the decisions YOU made.
My 7 year old is going through that right now. "It's not my fault, mom." By the time she's 8 I'm sure she'll have figured out her decision caused the response. And she'll grow up to be a fantastic leader. She'll never be one if she is always blaming her little brother for all the poor decisions SHE made.
I'm looking forward to that growth occurring in her and others.
To your success,
Joyce Penner
No More Pump & Dump
I found out it was not my fault when I discovered I had been lied to and was in a "Pump and Dump". They pump you full of hopes and how much money you can make and then once you join and pay your money dump you like a hot potato. Some of it was my fault...For trusting and not doing my due diligence or simply not know what to look for. Mentoring For Free TEACHES you this and am I glad I also found this system. Keepin it real Steven
Awesome discovery
It's so awesome when people finally find a system and some great tools that they can implement in to their life and make IT work for them. Just "do it" Steven. Thank you for posting truth.
If people were perfect, there would be no 'fault'.
I agree to certain extend. But the 'it is not my fault' is often just a self excuse for not willing to do what it takes.
Taking responsibility
Vic Johnson - Day by Day with James Allen (author of As a Man Thinketh)
"To get control of our circumstances we must first acknowledge personal responsibility for being where we are. That was the hardest part for me because the "victim" in all of us doesn't want to take that responsibility." - Vic Johnson
He finishes off each day with "And that's worth thinking about."
Pretty cool stuff when you get your head around it.
Joyce Penner
Leaning, Growing and Doing What it Takes
Learning the skills for success, finding your own positivity, motivation, persistence, and ability for not making excuses is all part of personal growth, which that doesn't necessarily mean you have to change as a person inside, unless someone is simply unmotivated and negative. But making the decision to strip those things and illuminate a better person underneath will allow that person to find their own the power to succeed, and think for themselves rather than believe blindly everything they are told.
Education is the Key...
Putting all fault and blaming aside, it amazes me why people so readily jump into loser deals without doing their basic diligence...
Nothing can replace knowledge...
...that is put to good use. Sometimes, though, the problem is that we don't know what we don't know. That's when it's a wise idea to hook up with someone who is already successful at what you're wanting to do. Mentors are a good thing!
Education is the Key
I love being me and I want to grow................in my gifts and talents but not what others tell me to be...........How can I be the person I was created to be. I am the Perfect Jan and growing.
Great...your friend, Jan