I Blame You!
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No matter who or what created your present circumstances,
from this moment on you control your own destiny.
You have the freedom to imagine the future that you desire.
Now that you are taking control of your life...you must also
take the blame from this moment on.
When things go wrong in your life and business you look for
reasons as to why...and it is never your fault.
It is a lot easier to blame it on something other than yourself.
The blame game is an ego game, you are defending your
present place in business and life. You are at your present
place in life right now due to the influence of others.
Regardless of how you got to where you are, you own it!
It is your story, building a better future takes determination,
dedication, and courage. If you are committed to a better life
and business, the blame game must stop NOW!
It's time to face it, our parents, teachers, and preachers did
the best they could. Nobody has a perfect childhood or life.
We have all had challenges to overcome. The windshield of a car
is larger than the rearview mirror because you are suppose to
spend more time looking where you are going, than where
you have been. Life and business are the same...look at where
you are going instead of where you have been. Stop defending
and explaining why your business isn't working and take responsibility
for it and work on changing it. You have more control over tomorrow
than you do over yesterday. Look at where you are right now...this
is the place that you need to grow from right now! Refer to your past
just don't live there or it will be very hard to build a better life!
If you look for reasons to stay where you are they are all around you.
If you want to change let go of the past and improve your choices.
It's your choice, remain stuck or move forward. A successful life is
nothing more than a series of successful choices. Watch your thoughts
and be careful who you let influence you.
Alice McCarthy
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About the Author: Alice McCarthy
Member Since: 01/07/2009
Company: Alice McCarthy Inc.
Industry: Marketing and Advertising
Primary Web Site: http://alicemccarthyonline.com
I Blame You
I Choose To Take Responsibility For Where I Have Been, I Choose To Learn From That and I Choose To Move Forward.You Are So Right Alice, Thanks
Moving Forward!
Thank you Alice,
Well put. I have to remember the windshield is bigger than the rearview mirror line. I am making the right choices and moving forward with them but thanks for this post. It helps keep the focus in front of me.
Timothy C Burns
I Blame You
Thanks Alice we can never move forward,if we don't accept where we have been especially if it wasn't beneficial and change move on
Nicely worded, We are
Nicely worded, We are responsible for our destiny.
Barbara
The Blame Game
Alice:
Well done and well said!
Don't waste time playing the "Blame Game", Take responsiblity and get on with your life, business, etc.
Wish some people would see this.
Hi Alice, Thank you so much for this. It is something I work with every day of my life. I sometimes joke, that if one looses his life because of "being in the worng place at the wrong time", it still was your own responsability. You took the dicisions to be right there at that moment in time. I know it is a little extreme, but it gets people laughing and thinking.
Isn't it silly though, that there are certain people that just can't see things this way???
Thanks for your inspiring article. :-)
great post
It is sooooo vitally important to take responsibility, work on personal development and be able to recognize when we are making excuses, address it and more forward.
great post
It is sooooo vitally important to take responsibility, work on personal development and be able to recognize when we are making excuses, address it and more forward.
Blam It On Network Marketing
I thought it would be funny to write a song on network marketing with the Blame It melody. Many marketers find all kinds of reasons why they're failing in their business. This is my message to them...
P.S. Pardon my raspy voice. I know I'm a terrible singer.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FB7NsvJZ7kY
You Control Your Own Destiny
Alice, another creative article. You have a gift. "Better today, than tomorrow" Joan of Ark, thats what I say. Great article. Thanks for sharing.
Persistence, persistence, persistance. Keep on moving forward.
Not pulling any punches...
Thanks for "telling it like it is!" Well written and loaded with specific actions that will start us on the path to making the changes that will propel us to success.
Inspiring
Like Rutger said above there are lots of folks that could stand to read your post. Thanks.
I've always wondered
How do people accept the "it's not your fault" philosophy? We are responsible for 100% of exactly where we are at this very moment.
Great article !
To your success,
Joyce
YOU ARE YOUR SURROUNDINGS
Keep your thoughts positive and pointed to your final Destination/Dream.