I Don't Have Any Fancy Videos

Called As Seen

(quote) "Don’t have “hair and make up sessions”

And often times you can STILL find me cooking dinner with a headset on so I can help people at the same time I care for my family.
(quote)

I guess I'm still a bit below "average". My girl still really likes a "hair and nail session". Seems like a big thing to her.

I thought it was just something girls like to do.
You know, their hair and their nails.

You don't do your hair and nails? That doesn't make you feel nice?

And I thought the thing was to get to spend MORE time with your family.

Does any single person reading this BS actually believe that you're cooking dinner and serving your family while paying attention to someone ON THE PHONE?

How EXACTLY can you help someone on the phone while you "CARE" for your family?!

My advice to you is to delete this post before lots of other people (like your kids) figure out what you're really all about.

Dang.
What a load.

Don't Criticize what You Don't know

If there's one thing that Diane Hochman is, it's the real deal.

She tells it like it is and puts on airs for NO ONE.

No hair appointment? So what?? How many of D's videos have we seen where she is "camera ready" complete with a baseball cap on her head or her now famous ponytail?

To suggest that a mom can't work from home and care for her family is equal to suggesting that a woman who works outside the home can't either. There are "work hours" either way. And by the way, it IS possible to cook and talk at the same time. If YOU'RE a mom, you understand that preparing a nutritious meal is just ONE WAY of caring for your family.

BS??

Let's see...

She's a trusted instructor here on BN...
Do a search for her on this site and find 27 pages of stuff...

Then check out her YouTube channel...

Then all the free training at DianeHochman.com...

Then attend her free Summer of Success trainings...

A "load"?

Is that why she has protégés around the globe?
Is that why she's been around for over 10 years?
Is that why she makes money hand over fist?

All of that said, it's impossible to count how many times Diane has ended a phone conversation, interrupted or canceled a conference call, rescheduled something or has made it known that she's simply NOT AVAILABLE because her family and their needs come first.

It's clear that you TOTALLY MISSED THE POINT of what she was trying to say, Dave. This is not about whether or not she gets her hair or nails done. (Which you'd know the answer to if you knew Diane) With so many unscrupulous people out there, many people (men and women alike) have been misled and believe they have to buy some special piece of equipment or go to some fancy place (dressed to the 9's, of course)…in essence, be someone they aren’t… before even starting to think about actually marketing.

Far too many have fallen victim to this kind of thinking and she’s making the point that you that you can start where you are…with what you have…being WHO you are.

Diane is putting herself out there as the example...don't wait on the right outfit, hairdo, manicure, camera, location, etc. get started. Let the camera see the real you (people respond to authenticity, btw)

Dave, you might want to check out Jerry Chen's interview and video "Is Diane Hochman the real deal?" posted here on Better Networker last fall. Get to know a bit about the woman you seem so anxious to discredit.

Don't criticize what you don't know, Dave...
It's OBVIOUS that you don't know what being a wife and mother entails, and you DEFINITELY don't know Diane Hochman!!

BTW...I'm a 60 year old grandmother and have always been a "girlie girl"...My hair is in a ponytail today, I'm in jeans and a sweatshirt and I've only had ONE professional manicure in my entire life. I do my own hair, my own nails and my own makeup. I’ve never lacked for “feeling nice” and that $$ can be spent on other things (like my 10 grandchildren!)

Treat Others How You Want To Be Treated..

Anyone else remember that saying??

Diane Hochman is a VERY respected INSTRUCTOR on this very site

(go take a sneaky peek)

but I don't believe you understood what Diane was saying,

she was saying-

I don't need to do fancy videos and get

"Hair and Makeup sessions"

FOR DOING VIDEOS!!!

for one, Diane does enjoy hair sessions-

she gets Extra blond..

for her blonde hair ;)

and she does go and get nail sessions..

there was a clear misconception that you didn't understand what she was saying-

and it's a message I stress always as well,

Diane's point was-

You don't have to be fancy, perfect, and elaborate

to build a successful business..

You just gotta be you!

Be real, be authentic,

and go on and help others achieve their dreams..

PASS IT ON!!!

that's what Diane Hochman does everyday! :)

You can even stop by tonight for our public call

Diane and one of our other instructors-

Miriam Buhr, a PH D level Psyhologist

are doing tonight-

Super Simple Marketing Psychology

which is part of our

Summer of Success Training Series

that is free to the public, and just there to help!

So yah,

Me personally,

enjoy doing my hair and makeup..

princess, not so much ;)

What Diane is Really About....

She's about Being REAL and AUTHENTIC

She has shown people over and over again how

Things Don't Need to be Perfect to be Extremely Effective

Hence Not worrying about her Hair and Make up sometimes

She's Inspired and Helped a Massive amount of People

Plus She goes above and beyond in Everything She Does

And I really Don't think Her post is the one that needs to be deleted

Awwww Dave...Think You Missed the Point.

Diane and I have been friends and colleagues for nearly 8 years and
Believe me, her kids LOVE the way she works her businesses.
They are confident, independent and courageous because of it.

And they don't want to be in the kitchen slicing and dicing with her, honest.

And they get to go to a lot of concerts . . .
(Diane offers concert and coaching week-ends).

It's a pretty great life.

She has helped and continues to help boatloads of people
who have been misguided, are spinning their wheels and almost
ready to give up.

She cracked the code and now teaches it.

You could have checked her out right here on BN.
(pssssst, she's an Instructor)
Or Googled her and found her You Tube channel...
Tons of FREE videos . . .
With and without the fancy makeup and hairdos.

So I think you missed is her REAL message.

It's a lot like Nike...
Just Do It!

Doesn't have to be perfect.
Just Do It
NOW!
Get it going.

Dave, I don't usually give advice unless someone asks for it...

However, I'm going to make an exception.

My advice is for you to check her out.
Tonight (and every Tuesday) for the
Free Super Simple Marketing Series

9pm Eastern

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It's usually a party, we'll love ya up and
you might pick up a nugget or two.

Terry

Aww c'mon Dave ..........

Just lil ol ME

And ten years worth of home business knowledge …

Reaching out my hand to you.

And saying…

BEGIN WHERE YOU ARE

Cause you are PERFECT right now…

And you’re only gonna get better

Diane is reaching out to you and lots of online newbies that think they must have the latest software, system, video camera
or location or that next new thing

All before they get started marketing

Marketing can be as simple as talking to a local business owner
as they ring in your purchase

Nothing fancy - no fast car, replicated website or talking email required

That is the message

AS for Diane - She is the real deal - Family ahead of business

people ahead of another system sale

Diane will be the first to tell you NOT to buy something if you
are not ready

Message is Just get out and talk to people - nuf said

You can measure yourself Tues Night 9pm EST

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and no, I will not be on the call because I will be

cooking dinner for my family as our youngest

turns 31 today

But don`t let that stop you from discovering how Super Simple
Marketing really is

Authentic, In your face, common sense advice

Learn what the psychology is and apply that instead of

forking out money to buy the latest `LAUNCH`product

Don`t Be `guru bait

Wes

Thank You For Sharing Dave

And I want to Thank You Sharing
I will be nice to you and invite you to our party

What you do to others God Does to you.
The Law of reciprocity

Please Join this evening and Really Learn
From Lady Diane

Seriously you learn a thing or two

Here is my personal invitation to you Dave
That’s Tonight Tuesday

This week's Super Simple Summer Of Success
Series Call is

"Super Simple Marketing Psychology."

Diane and Miriam Buhr, one of the HSBW team and
a PHD candidate in psychology, are going share
the RAW basics of marketing psychology used
Most TV commercials and Infomercials to make
BILLIONS of dollars in sales each day.

Here's the TRUTH is ...

You are going to blown away with the fact you
ALREADY KNOW THIS STUFF.
But what you will learn is how to applied this
to your business more income for yourself...

So join us at 9 pm EST tonight (Tuesday)

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So Dave you were so gracious to share your opinion
And I want to Thank You Sharing
Again

Cheryl

Survey Says....Seasoned Entrepreneur!

Diane, Thank you for your honesty in this post. Many people are paralyzed by some of the thoughts that seem to plague their minds, which often affect their actions. If you don't embrace a solid foundation or philosophy, you end up being the influenced rather than the influence. Knowing self is so critical for personal transformation. I appreciate your comments and that of the other commentators because it points to the level of impact you’ve had on many people. So below I break down some things I’ve observed…

One thing I’ve learned throughout all my research years is that numbers tend to create stories if you are open and savvy to discern them. So when looking at Diane Hochman’s numbers, people certainly can see a story full of strong ties and personal impact. She is a leader that has nurtured, helped, and inspired other leaders move beyond their limitations. Thus she has been creating a lineage of sorts. I mean why people would be so inclined to respond, whether positive or negative, to her articles, videos, training calls, and even this post highlights one compelling fact: her level of influence. She is a business woman with over 10 years in the home based business industry that has used different forms of marketing as a vehicle to help many entrepreneurs, novice as well as seasoned veterans. As one of her colleagues, I say some of these numbers speak for themselves because it’s not just a few hundred people that she has impacted but more so in the 1,000s.

By looking at Diane Hochman’s social media accounts, you can see some of her impact. I say some because it only addresses some of her online interaction. Her YouTube video channel has over 190 videos (that’s not even counting a number of videos in other video sites), 355 channel comments, 213,666 upload views and over 2,200 subscribers. And let’s not forget that about 50 of those 190+ YouTube videos have over 1,000 views per video. And out of that small batch of videos, there are even still some that have over 2,000 views. These are content rich videos. Her Twitter fans total over 17,000 and on Facebook between her personal and Fan/LikePage profiles, this seasoned entrepreneur has over 8,000 followers. Yes, some of these numbers may be duplicates but let’s look at this for what it is…

Diane Hochman is perceived by many as an authority figure, a mentor, friend, and a source of business related knowledge because when credibility speaks people not only follow but they also listen.

Everyone is entitled...

...to call it as they see it!

(doesn't mean they're wrong, they're just NOT correct)

The way I see it is...

Diane hit the nail on the head with this one...

Thanks Diane for ALWAYS keeping it REAL!

I see what you say Dave...

Hey Dave, man I see what you say. I haven't gained much from reading or listening to Diane, I just don't like that style of marketing. It may work for some but but not for others and vice versa.

The ladies seem to enjoy it which is great... if it floats your boat then float it, plus Diane has track record... which nobody can take from her.

But I like the cars and resorts and the better and bigger lifestyle look, man isn't that why most of us are here. Heck I can earn a $10,000 per month income working 9 to 5 and be home with the kids at night.

I came here for the bigger and the better, the cars, the money and everything else that goes with.

Does that make me shallow or less for being here for that. My wife and sons and wouldn't say so, and anyone elses opinion is irrelevant.

What I find interesting is that this post came AFTER a major industry launch. Coincidence? Maybe...

Keeping It Real....

I have just one question...

Would you rather know the truth with no hype, honest and real

or

Glitter, Glam, 'BIG lifestyle???

When you see those sites and ads that have the flashy cars, beach scenes etc...

How do YOU know that person is telling you the truth???
How do YOU know that they are actually making money???
Can YOU trust them??

All Diane is saying in this post is to just be YOU!
With no hype, with no 'mask'
just be yourself
and that is what ATTRACTS people to you.

Your not for everybody...
only the people who are looking for you....

Thank You Diane
for being REAL, always speaking the truth and mostly
loving people enough to CARE.

Oh and by the way Greg...
Her post has nothing to do with any launch that may be happening right now...
Tha'ts NOT Diane's style!

Why the Dichotomy?

Yeh Julie I hear what your saying, no problem. I am not criticizing Diane, as mentioned she has a track record, I never take anything like that away from people.

I often find in situations like this that there is often a dichotomous view presented in that people tend to polarize around one side or the other.

I NEVER do that. My view here is this... can't we be real and have the car, the money, the resort holidays as part of it?

Can't we present a successful image of ourselves and be real at the same time?

I found Diane's article too polarizing for me... my interpretation was something like "hey you don't need to use the glitz and glamor, you just need to be real".

But my thinking is... "hey, you can do it both ways, you can use glitz and glamor AND be real about yourself in the process".

I much prefer that way than polarizing opinions. I DO NOT like marketing that comes across like "your side-my side" stuff.

You hear people using it all the time... "the gurus won't tell you this but I will" style of marketing. Or the "gurus secrets to online success that they aren't telling you".

There is polarization in that and I just flat don't like it. It's us or the gurus. Blah...

Peace...

Hey David,

Sounds like your a bit upset about this post. I normally would not reply and waste my own time, but I have been on many calls/webinars with women just like Diane. You hear the kids in the back and they are on a time crunch because dinner needs finished.Its the mother nature in them. Did you know that 80% of network marketing is made up of women? Do not over think it to much. Then again while many people post negative reply s that are time wasting. Many of us are out there DWIT. My advice would be delete your post and save your self the time of not writing virtually useless words.

Thank you Dave best of luck.

Amen!

I was thinking the same thing, Cassie!!

Hair

Do you guys really believe that Diane cuts her own hair and has never had her nails done?

I thought I got the dinner thing wrong once I considered further. I mean, if she's shoving a chicken in the oven wearing a headset, that's totally believable.

The picture I got in my head was her family around the dinner table while she's serving them with the headset on. NOT really present with the family in that case.

For those of you who think I don't know who she is and what she does, please take your own advice. I know about Diane Hochman. But I don't know her. I know that Cassie is one of her peeps. I know what videos she does, and I've read her stuff. I'm not just tearing her up for this one post.

I thought long and hard about this post. About 6 hrs after I posted, I decided to take it down. Thought it might come across wrong. Got that one right!

But I had to get up early and get on a plane. I tried on the plane, but it didn't work. So I got to where I was going and found all of these responses. Now I'm glad I didn't take it down.

To all who think this was a personal attack on Diane, it wasn't. I was taking issue with a concept delivered in the post. Not only that, it's one of the most incredible marketing pieces I've ever seen.

What aggravated me was the fact that I know she knew what she was doing when she wrote it. And I also knew that most wouldn't recognize it. This has been proven by your responses. If you don't know what I'm talking about, ask her. I bet she'll tell you.

The point is this. With power like that you've gotta be really careful. That's all. Everything I thought about this post and your responses exists only in my own head.

I do find it interesting that most of my post had nothing to do with anything but fact, but nobody noticed.

Here's something I noticed.

If you read my post, at the end, I say "Dang, what a load."

Did any of you consider that I was talking about what I had just written, and not the original post?

Common Ground

Hi Dave...and everyone else....

Wow...interesting response over here...

I put this on my blog a while ago and thought I'd share it over here since there is so much hoopla going on right now and so many
people write me freeking out thinking they can not get started and that they can never catch up in internet marketing.

All the comments were really positive over at the blog as the post
was just saying that it's OK to just be a regular person and that we don't need video studios in our homes or hair and make up sessions before we go on camera etc. We don't need to spend thousands on a fancy blog and that we can get started with easy low cost tools and work our way up. I wanted people to hear from someone who is kinda well known that it's OK to just get it going. I wanted people to know that even a mom who cooks dinner and folds laundry CAN do this and that it can be done with simple tools and simple techniques.

(Dave...OF COURSE I love to get my hair and nails done...I was just saying that you don't have to have a professional hair dresser do you up before getting on camera...that's all--believe it or not I have seen a female trainer who teaches people how to video market show people her hair and make up sessions before she shoots so I was counter balancing that. People are lucky if I get to comb my hair half the time hence the often present baseball cap)

One of my blessings (at least I think so) is that I was brought up in old school mlm and the moved into internet marketing so I have seen both sides and there is something to be said for the old saying "fun, simple, magical"

That's how I started in MLM and that's how I do internet marketing.

Oh sure today I know all about funnels and launching and all that good stuff. Use it all the time...In fact I'd say I am one of the best at marketing psychology which is why I get away with all the crappy technology..it's just not my bag.

But I didn't start there and that's what I want people to get...that they need CORE SKILLS and THEN you can add all the formulas you want...whether we are talking traffic, launches, PPC, SEO...none of that matters if the person is paralyzed.

In my opinion the biggest problem plaguing home business owners is poor self image---

And the key to solving that is a cycle of small little daily successes.

It's hard to become a good swimmer if you jump into the deep end on day 1...

And for most...the failure becomes a set back that haunts them for months, years or forever...knocking them out of the game...

So I wrote the article to say HEY...

Start where you are...

It's OK to be who you are and that you don't need fancy cars, beaches, hair, houses or anything else...

Just something SOLID to say or teach and a sincere desire to assist others.

So I hope that clears things up.

Thank you to all of you that shouted out some good words on my behalf.

And also to those that expressed a disagreeing stand point.

That is what Better Networker is all about...

DIALOG and DISCUSSION...

But in the end...

Don't we have to go forward with the idea that people here are moving with good intention?

I don't agree with everything my colleagues say...

Some of them I completely disagree with from a business standpoint..

But I gotta RESPECT THEM for their accomplishments and their contributions to the industry.

And I believe that they move with good intention with their info products and courses.

I believe they are speaking to their marketplace and filling a need that people have...otherwise they would have no sales or following.

I speak into and for MY marketplace...my constituency..which is not the fanciest or most technogically advanced crowd...

And I like it that way. In fact I designed it that way.

And it is those folks that I will always write for and do videos for...

And people on the other side of the fence may not like my stuff...

But I do ask that they respect it.

And Dave...I am smiling...cause in the end I got a rise out of you...

And you and I know that that is half the game in marketing :)

You are a cowboy in Afganistan...

And me...I am a cowgirl in fuzzy slippers...

But I kinda think that somehow we are cut of the same grain...

Pioneer Doers that GET ER DONE no matter what it takes...

And I think that is some common ground we can stand on.

Thanks!

I liked this because it hit me where I'm at now. I don't have fancy videos or a professionally done website, but I have the drive and ambition to get where I want to be with my time and finances. Thanks for writing, I enjoyed it.

Thanks for being real

Thanks for letting others know that all they need is to be authentic! Just be themselves.
Usually this is enough. For some, like myself, it is difficult to get in front of a camera.
You are just yourself and you let others connect with you by way of them relating to
"you" and your style, your message, your inspiration.
Just like music and movies, we are attracted to what we find stimulating and exciting.
The same goes for relationships built and nurtured online.
Don't worry about those that don't like you, concentrate on those that connect
with you and "vibrate" with you. The like minded people that share in your values
and ideals will automatically resonate and relate with you. And, you will ultimately
inspire those that think and believe that they themselves cannot do internet
marketing.
We bring something of value to others, and you Diane, most definitely do bring
amazing value.
Keep on the good work!

Paul

It's all about copywriting

This post is a great example of good copywriting.
She is selling herself from an angle of a story.

The "I'm just like you" story.

And it's contrarian.

Do what the others are not doing.

And there's people who this absolutely will REPEL, but because people are looking for an authentic leader they can trust, I can guarantee this post will resonate with a whole whack of people.

And she'll get hits, and opt-ins and leader and sales from it.

Here's an example of [url=http://www.thenumisnetworker.com/]low-key connecting[/url] AND using a fancy lower-third graphic.

But Diane is spot on about one thing about videos. Sometimes the editing is too much trouble for what it's worth.

You can get up more simple videos quicker than by wasting time with lower-thirds.

[url=http://www.andrewmurrayhq.com/]Andrew Murray[/url]

Well well! How refreshing!

Exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks Diane. Would you believe I just got rid of everything except my basic business opportunity and Mike's training?

I blew all my savings on PPC and now that I am broke again I am forced to re-learn the basics, like writing and talking. Could this be a blessing in disguise?

Just Keeping It Real!

This was a great article! I see a lot of marketers over do it with fancy cars, big homes, etc.. yes the stuff that they have are very enticing but lets be real, 90% or more of the people looking at what you have do not believe that they can obtain the same success. I found out that if you keep it simple and relate to people more, eventually you're business will start to grow. Thanks Diane for the article.

Fancy Videos

Well, all I can say is you are correct in your thoughts on keeping it simple. How many times have we received ads in our email about how we can make 10's of thousands of dollars a month? Seems like every other time I get an email from someone that I have joined they are trying to sell me something. Or they are going to have a new launch and I need to take action now or I'll miss the boat,,, again. What a bunch of garbage. If only more people were honest and true about wanting to help others get ahead, then this would indeed be a great business to be in. Thank you so very much for your part in doing just this. I look forward to seeing more of your blogs and emails.

David Kotecki - BRO - What da???

What's so bad about chucking mashed
potatos at teenagers while showing a
teammate how to post a blog or article???

Or not combing your hair and sopping on
a ball cap to shoot a quick amateur vid
about BUILDING YOUR SELF IMAGE UP Enough
to be able to build a business from home
by chucking mashed taters at your kids
and dancing to Jimi Hendrix while you're
on a conf call training with a bunch of
old school boomers...

Hey

WHO SAID this home biz crap had
to be so damned stuffy...

KEEP IT REAL

KEEP IT YOU

AND SCREW "Them"

With all the over priced
and over hyped regurgitated
"formulas" LOLOLOLOL

LOVE IT DIANE

YOU KNOW I DO!

Franco

Wot no fancy videos ;-)

No Sun kissed bikini babe running along the sand ... WAKE UP ;-)

Give my psychology over glamour any day. Fake and phoney dont cut it today.

Prefer realism ;-)

The Game Of Marketing Is Knowing How To Play

As I read Daves Post then all the LOYAL followers of Diane's I chuckled.. Diane has them eating out of the palms of her hands! I sat here not so much in defense for Diane as I was in utter amazement and BElief that Diane is making her moves with the precision of a scientist trying to put a cap on the oil spill in the Gulf. Have you watched any of that? The Best of The Best MINDS working together to find a solution! Hmmmm? Sorta kinda the same thing.. Oh, let me set the record straight I AM a Loyal student of Diane Hochman...I owe MOST of what I know about people, More of what I know about myself and ALL of what I know about this industry to her and my other teacher. Here's to keeping it real Diane while "playing" masterfully among the multitudes who only dream of doing what you have done! And who could IF they would just take the time to LEARN to EARN... I love ya!

Jo

Diane Hochman is a scammer? Again?

Anyone remember what happened when that question was asked the last time around?

How interesting that whenever Diane's credibility is put in some type of questionable light, we see these ESSAYS of responses (LOL).

A reflection of the human tribal nature.

A passionate tribe she's got, huh :D

I guess we don't need to keep marching on to defend who's right (although, again, human nature prevails and some of us will continue to do that forever and ever and ever... hehehe.)

What's your favorite flavor of ice cream, Diane?

Vanilla?

Wow, Diane. Great comment, makes me feel better.

Thanks for article, really. When I began reading your article, I started thinking about me, trying to have everything ready to start my video on teaching Spanish for entrepreneurs. So I was trying to save money to get the best video camera and get this and get that. You are right on the point, start with whatever you got, start from there and work your way up.

Thanks my dear Diane, this opened my eyes.

As always, God belss you and bless all those marketers out there.

Jose Joe Lasa

Awesome

Simple and powerful little word. Just like this post you shared. I'll leave you with a "thanks!" You wouldn't want much more would you ;)

- Jeremiah Hammill

Common Sense!!! Thank you Diane

Simple and to the point... Thank you.

Have a Great Day,

Danny & Laura

An Apology

I was recently reminded that I posted on this article and I was told that I had attacked Diane. I didn't believe it, because I am careful about what I say, especially in writing.

When I came back and looked at my comment, I realized that it was simply not appropriate.

I was completely out of line and I went too far.

I hope that all who read this will accept my sincere apology to Diane Hochman. It was not my intention to be disrespectful to her, or to you.

Dave