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The father of ALL million dollar skills
As I share this information with you, I don't want you to feel like I'm your strict parent about to give you a lecture on your work ethic.
(Ok… brace yourself… lol)
Not at all.
Actually, I just want you to remember a few key things that you may have already picked up in your entrepreneurial journey that many of us need to revisit.
These are the things I have learned along the way and continue to remind myself to do on a daily basis…
Things I learned from top leaders, mentors (not necessarily ‘gurus’) and those who are actually out there doing stuff…
The words themselves are not that glitzy or glamorous, but they mean a lot to you in terms of how you perceive your own business and the services provided by others.
I'm talking about the SKILL of taking personal responsibility.
And yes, I do mean it as a SKILL that can be learned.
No matter where you run your business, on or offline, you will have a much better experience when you maintain an ethic of personal responsibility.
Personal responsibility, for your business and yourself, is going to make a huge difference in the way that you select your gurus, tools, and courses of choice as you become a more experienced entrepreneur.
As you build on this ethic, several strategies are involved, such as:
- Building up core personality skills that will help you in your business and even other important parts of your life.
- Not blaming tools, courses, or gurus for any failures you experience.
- Understanding that just as many people make money online as they can offline, and vice versa.
- Careful reading of copy writing in sales letters and email offers.
Core personality skills you should have as an entrepreneur.
You need these skills under your belt because they will make many tasks so much easier to complete and will improve your relationships with prospects and business partners.
-Communication with Others:
Be clear, direct, and concise.
You want to be understood as you deliver your messages.
Emails to your contacts should be insightful, informative (as necessary), and not pushy.
Your phone calls should usually be scheduled and follow an agenda.
If you drag on for too long over the phone, you will feel burnt out and so will the other person.
Emails and phone calls are great when they follow a structure and provide valuable information to the other person.
-Not Blaming Others:
Maybe a popular course, product, or service caught your attention.
You invested in it and it didn’t work.
It won’t make sense to assign blame to something if it has worked well for many others.
Determine first that you followed all the steps before you declare that it is "useless."
If your investment isn’t a good fit for your personality or your business, review the refund policy carefully...
But again, don’t assign blame to external forces (such as the company from which you made the purchase).
In the end, it's really not their fault if you did not take the necessary steps to make sure you would be ok if you changed your mind about buying the tools they offered. Take control of the matter and review your options carefully.
-Understanding money is made and lost online and offline:
Some of us might not succeed with our first online business, and that is okay.
Many wealthy entrepreneurs had to go through more than one opportunity before landing on the business that worked the best for them and brought them the results they desired.
That’s one of the great things about the network marketing industry.
You can start in a home business right away and the startup costs are almost always affordable.
This makes it easier for you to try out different things until you land on what feels the most natural and best matches your passions.
You can also run an offline business with just as much success as an Internet-based business.
Many people have started restaurants and boutiques with great success and despite any economic shifts, continue to do really well.
-Reading and Writing Copywriting:
At this point you may have already gone through several sales letters about amazing support systems, tools for Internet marketing, or even personal development, and a lot of these are offered by “gurus.”
As you read the sales page, you have the opportunity to determine something about the expert offering the product or service and know right away whether they are a good match for you.
Some questions to consider are,
"Does this person speak to my passions?"
"Do I fully understand and relate to his/her message?"
"Is this a service/tool/course that speaks to the needs of my business?"
Not surprisingly, many people are quick to purchase something without reading the sales letter carefully.
They don’t take a moment to know the refund policy and when they do receive the course, they find that can’t make any use of it and become upset. This channels you back to the issue of not blaming others.
We all have a great level of responsibility for the investments we make, whether it’s a home business opportunity or tools for personal and/or business development.
Those entrepreneurs who refuse to take responsibility for these choices will continue to repeat a cycle of failure that will undoubtedly be hurtful to many of their business endeavors.
Bottom Line?
We are all human beings, and as such we are prone to being flawed.
This is not a bad thing at all, but the solution is to become aware of those flaws and become better people when we know our weak points.
The better you know your strengths, the more likely you are to select the gurus, tools, courses that best fit your personality type.
And the more aware you are of the differences in personality types, the better you will select the people who will join your business organization and cause it to thrive.
Dream ENORMOUS, my friend…
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About the Author: Jerry Chen
Member Since: 10/10/2007
I'm a Distributor For:: Symmetry Corp.
Industry: Marketing and Advertising
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Jerry...I turned it into a podcast..
Hey Jerry,
Something I like to when I find an article or blog that really sticks out I create a podcast for it. Sometimes these post can get tucked away here at BN and not surface up for a bit.
This is one of those posts where the points need to be herd as well as read from time to time again.
Any issues with that just shoot me a message.
Thank you
Richard.
skills & don't blame...
Hey my man Jerry from the OC, Dave of Seal Beach J.O.B. here to say, I have for last 3 weeks to and fro, Bro, been playing for the umpteen time AGAIN the Mike Dillards' 6 cd set called Black Belt Sponsoring that I have and offer and in it, it adds something for everyone reading your high value here that yes, don't blame..... like you showed, YET look to failures as the stepping stones and later shared experiences to newbies or oldsters like me for encouragement. It is ok to have some fails, and get them out of the way, but reuse as building for you and others.
Thanks again for you high quality.
Money Tips
There are some great tips there Jerry.
Proper analysis of the guru products will save you thousands. It has to be not just a great product, but a great product for you - just as you have pointed out.
Willing to take responsibility
Thank you Jerry for the awesome article, I really resonated with what you said about “Willing to take responsibility”, oftentimes, many of us need to reevaluate inwardly, rather than outwardly about the tools or courses what we obtained.
Kelly
Don't be a victim.
Hi Jerry, GREAT value you've given us here. I love the idea of making personal responsibility the main theme of anyones success.
If you blame, justify or complain, about your situation, basically playing the victim, you're only going to create more problems for yourself. Universal law of attraction.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.
Responsibilty
Right on the money! Everything we choose or do must align with our true principles, values, personalities, and passions.
Cheers,
JC
Many thanks!
What a true piece of work!
Exceptional post Jerry!
This is right on and needs to be read
by all newbies.
And those that are confused or not making money
yet.....becaue THEY BELIEVE SUCCESS IS OUT SIDE
OF THEM. Not within themselves.
OK so it needs to be read by virtually all folks.
What I see with most with folks is that
too many are looking for
"THE BIG RED EASY BUTTON"
As this post tells us...there is no such thing.
Thanks Jerry.
Communication and Responsibility
You make a lot of great points in this post. I believe they can be applied to every aspect of our lives. Personal responsibility is a big one in living with the success mindset. Really, until we learn to take responsibility for our actions, circumstances, etc., we can't move forward.
Communication is also very key and it is a topic that we don't see taught often in online marketing. Hmmmm...I think I see an opportunity there.
I am a newbie, and it is thanks to posts like this Jerry, that I am starting off right. Thanks for being an example and inspiration to people like me.
Wendy Hewlett
Thought provoking
I heard it said somewhere, "IF IT IS TO BE, IT IS UP TO ME!"
To much of the blame it on somebody else crap going on in the world today.
I guess many people find it easier to play the victum and place blame away from themselves, then to take personal responsibilty.
Think Clearly and Critically
Jerry,
Thank you for sharing! What stood out most to me is the fact that we need to be critical thinkers, examine and make real decisions based on real data. Some people spend more time and research when buying a car than when looking at a business opportunity! Go figure!!
Podcast...
Thanks, Richard. Glad the article helped. Do you have a link to the podcast? Or maybe a file I can upload to BN (will give you credit for doing the podcast, of course ;) )
Very Awesome!
Hey Jerry, Thanks for sharing!! very awesome content!!
Abdullah
this is Great!
i Actually enjoyed reading this.. Great picture by the way!
Dad of the 7 figure club !!
Hey Jerry,
You nailed it. We all need to accept what we ask for. If we want success, we need to think success and know how to obtain and make it manifest. Get rid of the fears and know that you can have what you want. Just do it.
Bud