The Secret To Your Success.

  Written by Rutger Diergaarde on Jan 16, 2010 5:48 am

Read More: Mindset

 

Yesterday a friend came by and we ended up chatting about our plans in life.

And so it was that I asked her the famous question: "If you didn't have to think about the money, what would you be doing with your life?"

The answer came after a large smile and a twinkle in her eyes.
"Well", she said. "I would like to have a nice house, travel, you know, things like that."
"I don't need to be rich, I just want to have enough money to be able to do the things I'd like to do."

"That's ok." I thought.
But then she shocked me with what she said next.
"As long as I can go once a year on holidays for a few weeks, I'll be happy."

"But", I said, "You just told me you like to travel a lot, see the world....."
Can you understand my disbelieve?
"Why?" I asked her. "Why limit yourself to just one holiday a year? Why limit yourself at all?"

Big eyes and a question mark in her face, then a smile.
She realized that by limiting her goals, she would indeed limit her life in all its aspects.
It is not easy for many people to think big. We somehow have learned not to expect too much. Maybe we are afraid that if we put our expectations up, we will feel disappointed not to reach them.

But if you have a clearly defined goal, on which to focus and to which to work to and the honest believe that you will reach that goal, YOU WILL REACH THAT GOAL.

It will take a lot of dedication, as your commitment will need to level your expectations.

So, are you somebody with limiting thoughts, or are your thoughts big, but you just need some help with the putting into action of them? Then contact me. We'll go through your plans for life. We will plan the steps you need to take and I will help you take the steps you plan.

But whatever your plans, your first step should be to download this free e-book, "Success In 10 Steps", here at this web site: http://rutgerdiergaarde.successin10steps.com.

I'll be hearing from you soon.

To your success,
Rutger Diergaarde.
http://rutgerdiergaarde.bigmlmsecrets.com
 
 

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Comments

Well said Rutger!

Limiting beliefs build walls between what is and what can be!

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Ekaphan Uttamawong — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 8:31am

Dreaming

I love your article. Remember how we used to dream as a child? We get busy just living and our dreams take a back seat. It's not too late to go after what we really want and dream BIG. "If we did the things we area capable of, we would astound ourselves." ~Thomas E. Edison

Lynn Jones — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 8:52am

Rutger why be Average and Dream Average

When we all have it in us to BE GREAT!!
Your friend for lIfe Juanita Waterman

Juanita Waterman — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 9:05am

IT'S A REALITY

In success the dream has already happened, Think that way! See you at the TOP!

Ernie Giordano — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 1:22pm

SPAM

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Be creative, write an article, or make new friends and build lasting relationships with them, but don't place your opportunity in comment boxes.

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Rutger Diergaarde — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 1:36pm

Great story!

Hey Rutger,

I really liked you sharing this story! It shows you have confidence in yourself and want others to be confident in themselves AND their future. I bet you made her day! : )

Stefanie Sanspree — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 6:51pm

Hi Rutger................

I love what you shared and what a break through for your next level in the business. It has happening and you are entering in your picture of you spoke. Thanks Jan

Jan Knutson — Sat, 01/16/2010 - 10:47pm

Right on Point

Nice read, keep up the good work. Thanks for sharing. Glad to see you told the 'spammer' to get real, too.

Terry Martin — Sun, 01/17/2010 - 8:38am

Rutger

You have a wonderful, well written article here but you spoiled it when you did the same thing Ekaphan did. You promoted your free ebook/system in your actual article. It belongs in the signature file but then again you probably realized that and just slipped yourself.
Excellent article
Joyce Penner

Joyce Penner — Sun, 01/17/2010 - 1:57pm

More SPAM, ;-)

Hi Joyce, Mmmmm..... Let me think about that for a moment.
I wrote an article that included a link to a free e-book, because I think it will help everybody in this industry who hasn't made it yet.

You are free to read this article, like everybody else and decide whether you want to click on that link or not to find out if indeed it is something you could use. I didn't post it on your profile or send it to you as a private message.

I think that that is something different then placing opportunity info unasked for in a comment on an article. Wouldn't you agree?

Anyway, I must say, all this comotion is doing me a lot of good, and I think talking about this subject will help to get people to realize what sort of a problem SPAM is and what we all can do to get rid of it.

Thanks very much for your comment Joyce. I loved your kind words and the little critical point about the spam I thin I cleared as well.

Hope we'll be getting to know eachother a bit better in the near future

Ciao for now.

Rutger Diergaarde — Sun, 01/17/2010 - 2:11pm

Great Article Rutger!

And I'm glad you were able to eventually clear everything up. Well done!

Anita Spring — Sun, 01/17/2010 - 10:17pm

Great Value Rutger!

Napoleon Hill say it so well: "Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything".
You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.
Thanks for sharing!
Marty Misner

Marty Misner — Tue, 01/19/2010 - 4:15am

Thanks Rutger

To not limit ourselves!!! That's how we should be taught from day one and someday, with thinkers like you we will get there.
Timothy C Burns

Timothy Burns — Tue, 01/19/2010 - 8:16am

A great lesson

Many have taught the same lesson, but you have provided a timely reminder for me. Thanks for sharing your insight on what is maybe THE most important lesson I believe we humans can learn: Know we can. Know we're worth it. Set our goals sky high. Live limitless! :-D

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