What are goals and how do I make goals work for me?

As a baby boomer one of my goals was to find an online home based business.  I was very successful in finding what I was looking for and I decided to do a (4) part series on goals and their attainment. There is so much involved in productive goal setting and getting what you want from life.  Over the next few days I will discuss what goals are, how to make them and how to achieve your goals when you know what you want. 

One of my mentors said less than 5% of the population has goals.  I initially found this hard to believe but quickly realized this is the reason people don’t accomplish their heart desires. 

I am starting with the definition of a goal. Exactly what are goals?  According to Webster dictionary a goal is the end in which effort is directed.  This definition makes total sense doesn’t it?  It is because of the end result that you apply effort to make things happen for you. 

Some people make goals and fail miserably at attaining them.  This is because there is a process to setting goals and making them a reality.  Wanting and dreaming are not enough to make your goals a certainty.  When you are not seeking goals you are not making progress in the direction toward something you want.  Could this be the root cause of some of your unhappiness?

What must be done to make your dreams come true?

1.      Goals must be specific with clarity. An example of a nonspecific and unclear goal is, I want to travel.  To be specific and clear you need to know where you are going, when are you going, how are you traveling, Some other things to consider could be who are your traveling companions, what is the cost, how much time do you have for your trip.  Be clear and specific.

2.      Goals have to be written down.  If they are not written down you are daydreaming and fantasizing.  Most people never get this part done.  It is a vital part of the equation.  Getting what you want from your life. 

3.      You must establish a time line for the accomplishment of your goals.  Be honest with yourself.  Will it take 90 days, 6 months a year or more?  Do you have short-term goals; these could be as short as a day.  Do you have long-term goals?  These could be as long as five to ten years out.  Some people make life goals and review them annually.  If you do not have a time line to get what you want your desire may never become a reality.

4.      Goals must be challenging.  People are often motivated by achievement so stretch yourself, grow, reward your accomplishment and be proud of yourself.

5.      Finally, to obtain your goals you must have a bold plan of action.

Working toward a worthy goal can make your life have meaning, and expand your personal development by leaps and bounds faster than any other method.  It is important to note that goal setting gives purpose to all life activity.  Get going with long term and short term goals.  Give your life a purpose.  Build your self esteem and have fun.

Look for part (2) in this four part series or read it on my blog.    Until next time.

Honor yourself.

http://meetharrietteblye.blogspot.com/