Seven Things You Should NEVER Say To Prospects
Do you know the one thing that every skilled recruiter in this industry has mastered?
The single critical element that separates them from those who are struggling. That gives them an almost unfair advantage?
It's their ability to communicate clearly and effectively with their prospects.
What you say (and how you say it) matters. While some networkers cling to the oft repeated mantra: “you can't say the wrong thing to the right person,” trust me when I tell you – you can. I've seen it happen all too many times.
Here's my list of “what not to say.” This is hardly “complete”, but it should help you improve your sponsoring ratio and think more carefully about what you are saying...
1) “Would You Do Me A Favor And Look At My Website?” - If you're saying things like THIS to your prospects, you need STOP it right now. You've got it backwards. You're doing your prospect a favor by giving them access to information that can potentially change their life. Instead, tell your prospect: “I'm going to do YOU a favor and give you access to some information that ...”
2) “I'm New To The Business And Trying To Make It Work” - OK, I know, this is an obvious one but you'd be surprised how many people say stuff like this. Look there's nothing wrong with telling someone your new – but please don't let your team members say it like that! And if you're saying this, think about it: how do you ever expect to ATTRACT quality people into your business with a comment like that? Instead, try this: “I'm new & excited. I've partnered up with some very sharp entrepreneurs and am looking for five sharp, motivated people who want to drive their business with me, right to the top of this comp plan.”
3) “When Can I Call You?” - when you or your downline says THIS to a prospect, what happens? Your prospect responds, “tell you what, why don't I call you?” Instead, be directive. “Dave, I work by appointment only. I can call you tonight at 7, or tomorrow afternoon at 2:30, what's best for you?”
4) “Are You Interested In A Home Based Business?” - If there's one word you should DELETE from your vocabulary it's “interested”... (the other word is “if”). To communicate in a compelling way, you do not want to come across tentative, or you'll attract tentative people. Try instead: “John, your name came across my desk, I understand you've been investigating ways to generate additional income working from home, is that still true?”
5) “Our Product Has A Money Back Guarantee” - Even if that's true, there's no reason to mention it. When you do, it puts you in a position of weakness. Think about this, would you? If you came across something that's absolutely phenomenal, you'd naturally tell people about it, right? Would you also tack on “oh, and it's got a money back guarantee”? Not likely. Why? Because if it's THAT phenomenal, it wouldn't need one. And please don't argue that “they won't know it's phenomenal unless they “try it” - look, what you've got is either GREAT or you're in the wrong place. BELIEVE in what you've got... and let that belief come through. If your product/opportunity is working for lots of people, they'll be ample evidence of that for you to point them to. Guarantees are a crutch you don't need.
6) “Why Don't You Give It A “TRY” - If you're working with a business prospect, then don't ask people if they'd like to give the business ”a TRY.” You're looking for people who are ready to DO the business, plain and simple. People who are ready and able to COMMIT – both to themselves, and you, and ready to go an create some success. I never offer my prospects “test drives.” You shouldn't either.
7) “You responded to one of our company ads for making money from home, do you remember that?” This is just an example of how many MLM scripts start off... the problems kick in immediately, due to the phrase: “do you remember...” The fact is, most of us don't remember what we ate for breakfast yesterday, let alone responding to an ad. What's more, whether they “remember” filling out an information request (or not) is irrelevant. Either they are (or they aren't) open to a good money making idea – yes or no. Ask if they remember, and you'll get a 5 minute conversation with them saying they don't, or asking you if it was “this ad” or “that”... who cares! Ask them if they're open to a good money making idea, and you'll get a “yes” or a “no” and can proceed accordingly. It's more efficient, it's more professional, and it works. Period.
Mark Wieser is a full-time network marketer, and top MLM industry trainer. You can tap into his insider sponsoring secrets by clicking: http://www.SurefireSponsoringSecrets.com/
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You truly are
Mark,
You truly are the master at talking to prospects...Keep up the great training.
Justin
Mark, You Rock!
Love it....what more can I say? Thanks. ;D
Hey Mark,
I have been using scripts for a while now and I thought it was pretty good, until I read your post...maybe you can offer some resources for writing good scripts for all the MS users
thanks
More Great Stuff
Mark,
The funny thing is that these are the same phrases most downlines tell you to use!!! I don't remember those being in the Recruiting Set you and Mike made. What's up with that? Just joking... Thanks for the additional info...
Brian
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Hey Mark,
Great and to the point.
Gosh does that bring back embarrassing memories....But it is always good to see how far I(we) have come. Like Brian said it what your down line instructs you to do....Crazy!
Laura
The Best Post On This Forum So Far!
Hi Mark,
I am reading most of the post on this forum - but this one HIT THE MARK! I just want to ask you if I can send it in an e-mail to my downline. I've been telling them similar things, but if they would hear it from as a new source - it will hit a home run!
All the best to you,
Brett
Simply amazing
Mark,
You hit on some key phrases that are very openly & commonly used in the mlm industry. It's almost like your want your prospects to have pity or feel sorry for you type of approach.
Michael
Try . . .
That one drives me nuts. When somebody says they will "try" a am compelled [and always do] quote Yoda: "Do or do not . . . there is no try."
Great post!
D.
I feel like I know you
Mark
Been listening to you and Mike on the Black Belt Recruiting tapes and I feel like I know you! Even my kids recognize your voice. Funny. Thanks for your insight, your post is right very interesting. I am guilty of at least 1 of those :).
Aymee
Well said...
You certainly know what you are talking about. Well said...thanks.
Thanks, Mark.
I appreciate the information.
Joan
Simply Great Mark !!
I remember when I used to say some of those things....ewwwww....my sponsor told me what to say and then wondered why it took me 3 months to get qualified. Everyone's bottomline would look alot differnt if we could auto delete those words and phrases...
Excellent post !! Keep 'em coming. Iappreciate you. Rose
Awesome.
These are great tips for keeping conversations on-track in an assured, professional manner. Thanks for the article!
-Heather
Wow
Great article, timely and right on target. well stated. Thank you.
Potent Artillery...
...If I were going into battle, I'd seek the wisdom of [i]SUN TZU[/i].
If I were talking to prospects, I'd seek Mark Wieser. :o
In response to the 7 things you should never say
Well Im sure like the most of us who have started off did infact use those 7. I find my self matureing more and more as i read these articles. A belief I have is that Good leader is one who is silent, who sits back and watches, learns , and then Acts. I myself have done that and I still do that. Thanks for the tips as I progress to my Success
Oh man...
I wish I had read this a week ago before I called back my 10 hottest leads! Okay, today is a new day and now I'm armed with better info. ;)
Onward and upward!
Arlina
Right on!
Mark - yet another great article... thanks for the tips! The language we use shows other our leadership qualities and abilities.!
Be well
Darren
Excellent Content!
Mark,
Thank you for the contribution. Your article was not only very relevant, but concise, precise and absolutely helpful. Great accomplishment there!
Can't wait to read more!
Leonardo
small changes
It is the small changes we make that bring the success to the table. A Dr doesn't call and ask if you can come and see him. He tells you this is the time I have open and this is what I will do. Point blank end of story.
It can be hard for some people to be more direct and ask for what they want. If you are running your business it is on your watch and you control the information that they need. At the time you have available.
Success speaks - it doesn't ask mother may I. Great post
Angela Brooks
www.angelabrooks.net