Using Positive Self-Talk to Conquer Any Goal



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Using Positive Self-Talk to Conquer Any Goal
Do you feel like you are always talking yourself out of success? As soon as you start to set
goals for yourself, do you suddenly have nagging thoughts about how you aren't up to the
task or how you simply aren't qualified to carry it through?

If you have ever experienced either situation, you need to change the way you respond to
your inner dialogue. Instead of obeying your negative commands, you can use positive
self-talk to counter the negativity and overcome nearly all anxious thoughts.

Setting Goals and Sticking to Them with Positive Self-Talk
Are you initially filled with excitement when you first set goals for yourself? Are these
thoughts then followed by self-doubt and self-defeating thoughts that stop you in your
tracks before you even get started?

It can be difficult to make the most of your life when you are constantly talking yourself out
of being a success. It can be frustrating and discouraging to have these thoughts constantly
plaguing you. Many of us, in fact, don't even realize we have them! All we know is that we
don't have the confidence to stick to our plans and reach our goals.

But there's another way!
Positive self-talk is an effective way to set goals and ensure that you stick to
them, even if you have never been able to do this before. The way this works is that
you decide what goal is important to you, and then you plan the logistics of how you are
going to attain this goal. When self-doubt starts kicking in, you will respond with
affirmations that prove your success without surrendering to the negative pressure. Since
you're reading this article, it's clear that you're no quitter and you're certainly not a failure, so
start believing in yourself!

Re-Programming Your Mind
Affirmations are essentially positive statements that re-program your mind for the positive.
The moment you have a self-defeating thought you'd be able to counter the negative with a
motivating statement. An example of a positive affirmation is: "I am worthy of great success,"
or "I see myself in the winner's circle." What this does is replace negativity with thoughts
that will help you move toward your goals instead of further away from them.

Positive self-talk is easier to implement than you might think. You may not be aware of the
severity of the negative dialogue currently within your mind. However, once you begin with
positive self-talk, you will suddenly realize that you are self-sabotaging the goals you set for
yourself from the minute that you make them. This process can open your eyes to exactly
how much this inner conversation has been interfering with your life. You'll feel hopeful
that you can now set goals and surpass them.

Through positive self-talk you will be able easily set long and short-term goals for yourself.
And when you use affirmations, you'll have accessible tools to help you push yourself
further than ever before. Learning to quiet negativity with positive thoughts is a great move
toward setting and attaining future goals with ease.
 

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Comments



Love Your Insights

Adrian I love your insights; the fundamentals of success never change!  I can remember listening to a Tony Robbins program where he talks about people saying, teach me something new...but Tony said that that is the sign of someone who isn't intending mastery.  The goals of MLM require patience, perserverance and an unswerving focus on our intended outcome.  Thanks for the great reminder!

Dee Morrison — Thu, 03/12/2009 - 8:20pm

Seems fake...

 Let me tell you, in the beginning when I got introduced to positive thinking, I thought it was the most bogus BS out there. I decided to do some research and relized that almost every person that has been successful in history got there because #1 Failure was not an option and #2 That no matter was hurdles they faced in the end they could see their goal. What Adrian is talking about is mentioned throughout Napoleons Hills, "Think and Grow Rich." Must read if you haven't encountered it yet. 

 

Thanks for this post Adrian!

EncoreSociety (not verified) — Thu, 03/12/2009 - 11:00pm