You Can Flow Or You Can Crash...Be Water My Friend...

You know you need to sort it out but it doesn't happen. So it lingers in the mind. The next day and still no go and it lingers in the mind again.

It grows on your mind and you think about even when you got to sleep. You walk and it is in your mind. You do your work and it is in your mind.

Now, the work is not because of doing what you wanted to do but it is a feeling of panick, worry and the fear of loss.

What to do?

How Dave Learnt The Law Of Abundance

Two weeks ago, I got a call from a friend. He wanted help and he was looking for a business but when I talked to him on the phone, something was not right.

So I asked some more questions and what he shared with me suddenly gave me flash back memories of what happened 10 years ago.

10 years ago, I faced a great delima in my life. I lost my home, my cars, my businesses, everything. Even the marriage went downhill.

As the man opened his heart and shared with me what has happened, I listened and I knew, instantly what was wrong. I asked him to not think about the business for a moment and meet. Or we cannot move forward at all with the business.

If this is not sorted out, right now, it is not going to go away. He agreed.

How To Get Rid Of The Fear Of Loss

I met him on friday at his home. His wife was there too. Let's call this friend Dave although that's not his real name.

I said my hello and I thanked his wife for the cup of tea and we sat and we did some small talk. Then I asked:

"Tell me straight Dave. Put business aside. No, really. Put business aside and tell me straight. Where's the letters?"

He knew what I was tallking about. He got up and walked outside the living room and a couple of minutes later, he showed me the letters.

The first letter, a debt of $2,000 Council Tax
Second Leter, a debt of $500 for not appearing  court for the payment of $2,000 Council Tax
Third Letter, a debt of $450.65 for the rent arrears
The fourth letter..
The Fifth

He had 8 letters and what got me the most was not these debts. These debts are not the worry. I'm being serious right now.

These are not the problem people. It is something else. Something that when I figured out, I won everytime against such things in life.

When you are losing in a battle and you dig deep inside of yourself, and you figure it out, these debts don't scare no one. Why? You know exactly the solution.

"Dave, can I be honest with you."
"Yes. I know, I'm in a right mess, and I don't know how I can start a business with these debts. Right?"
"No Dave. The mess is not the debts. The mess is fear and you're thinking you'll lose more."

It Has Nothing To Do With Circumstances

You see, Dave did what I did years ago. It is the fear of loss. Oh yes, we see this talk of abundance with BS talk on we must live a life of abundance but you see, the law of abundance must hold weight in full circle.

Dave feared the outcome, the circumstances, and "what if this happens, if I call and try and sort this out.."

It's true. This is something that gets people. It's not the debt, the money but that fear of picking up the phone and losing something, losing power, losing integrity, losing respect, losing..losing.

4pm and we got the letters and we looked at their budget they have at that moment.

"Ok Dave, let's see what you can give even if it is just $10.00 for each debt. Hey, it's something Dave."
"But Adam, they might ask for more and.."
"Dave, you'll be fine. Look, we'll do this together mate."

How The Negative Leaves Your Life

His wife got the debts sorted on paper as a list. Then on each one, the telephone number to call. And we went through each debt and called them.

Everyone of them accepted to recieve $10,00 except the last one who wanted $50.00 at end of each month until arrears paid. Dave was ok, he had the money for it.

What happened afterwards was amazing.

The relief and the shoulders on Dave and his wife relaxed. They didn't feel the pressure and the pain that they have been carrying for sometime. They even laughed and wondered what on earth were they scared of.

What? debt collectors?

Are all these debts worth breaking a marriage for and worry? Well, is it? No.

These furniture can be bought again. This house can be bought again. All these, the clothes, everything an be bought again but...your health can't. Your marriage when it goes down and gone, may never go back to that same place again.

Together, you are force to be reckoned with. On your own, you are still a force to be reckoned with. Do not let anything, circumstances or the system that grips the masses by the kneck, chokes them, distracts them to see they got everything to live for.

And every reason to be happy and be successful.

How One Thought Leads To Desperation Or Freedom

You see, no matter if it is a To Do list you have written and didn't do. This suddenly weights on your mind. It becomes a negative force. Suddenly you think of how you lost this and that. Suddenly this thought dominates your mind and not your positive thoughts.

The actions or tasks you didn't do, plays in your mind. It's going round and round, and you feel down. You know you should have done it but didn't. It becomes like a rollercoaster, beating you down.

Now, your life suddenly around this thought. You go to bed with this thought. You sleep with this thought, it does something out there, and it comes back at you when you wake up!

Burn it. Start again and now, you got rid of that baggage. Never live a life of worry. It doesn't deserve a space in your thoughts to let it control you. Let it go. Learn from it, smile at how we are learning. See it as a growth period and start again.

It is the book you haven't read and suddenly you feel guilty and a feeling of loss of time. Burn that thought mate. Do it. Get it done.Get that sucker out of the way. There is no loss. There is only gain.

You know, in my house, I had this clothes and that. Stuff I never wore. It was baggage man. Space I could have used. So I got these clothes and bagged them and went down to chairty shop and gave it to them.

Get rid of what you don't want, to make room for what you do want.

And when I did, wow. So much space, I felt free. I felt I could move. I felt alive.

How Abundance Isn't A Law To Apply Just For Business

My friends, abundance is not just about our business. It's about our whole life. Our business isn't just about business. It's also about how we live through all sphere's of our lives.

From marriage to your kids. From how you look after the home to loving your wife, or husband. It is how you treat your nieghbours and letting them see the abundance and no worry in your life. It is how you get up in the morning with tasks written down already and you go for it.

It's how you let someone walk in front, an old lady or a young guy and not have this anger because they stepped in the front. It's about our character and how we deal with all the things we think is real but rather, they are images of life, ready to see excellent example of a human being.

It is how you get up in the morning and you collect your thoughts, renew them and breathe and dominate your thoughts with a power that will render everything you worry about to dust.

It is how you see your children wake up and you help them renew their thoughts with abundance and the thoughts of how they have nothing to lose. If his sister takes the football it is ok. If her brother takes a crayon, it is ok. Give, for you shall be rewarded in life and recieve much more.

"Expect your every need to be met. Expect the answer to every problem, expect abundance on every level." Eileen Caddy

The power you have in you is far greater than what we think. You can change the world you are in and those around you with just the law of abundance.

It is how you deal even when you posts in threads and if you post like a nutter, thinking, because some hot shot has given an advice, you will LOSE the opportunity if you don't bang a spamming detail of your company, what you do and how much you get etc..

It is to take the mouth zipped for there is no need to validate how much one earns in a forum because your value which you invested in yourself will reveal it so, anyway.
 

"Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into." Wayne Dyer

It is the THOUGHT that continues in your mind, about something you haven't done. Just one thought, that is followed by another, and another, and another until....you render yourself to stall. And you worry.

And this worry creates the desperation and panic. This deperation and panic creates the force field of negative which does not allow the abundance to come into people's lives. It bangs at their door but because the person has created this field with their thought...it can only walk away.
 

"You pray in your distress and in your need; would that you might also pray in the fullness of your joy and in your days of abundance." Kahlil Gibran

Suddenly that worry turns into fear of loss. Then that fear of loss is felt by your spouse, and they feel down too. And now, it does not shape your life but also the life you hold dear and love.

I got a call from Dave last night. These are his very words...

"I don't know why I just didn't pick up the phone to call and not worry of losing anything. I feared the loss and there was nothing to really lose. Just taking care of these that day, made my burden lighter. For a long time, I saw my wife smile and laugh..."

It takes 24 hours to make your life a disaster. You can do one action, something stupid and that is it. It suddenly becomes disaster because we go all nuts about how we have lost this and that. And how we could have gained this and that.

It also takes 24 hours to turn it around. Correction. It takes NOW to turn it around, this second, this moment, this one thought..

Yes, the circumstances are there but they do not rule our life. They do not rule our thoughts. Our attitude does. The way you let it go and you be brave, and face it head one because your strong enough, and you got all it takes to succeed in anything.

Let it go people. Let this damn thing of fear of loss go within all your life. Face those debts head on. Deal with it now. Face those fears head on and laugh at them.

For the day you do is the day you defy the odds. It is the day you find courage, belief and this amazing feeling of, "wow! Life is awesome!"

There is nothing to fear. I put my life on the line right now, and say, with 100% conviction, you got what it takes to live a life of abundance.

Abundance is not some voodoo law. It is the law. Fear of loss in anything, even in thinking that, so, so is going to get your affilates. That if you get people to this forum you will lose them. And how so many people do this and that and steal this from you.

Let it go. It has nothing to do with these. Focus on what you can do and what you're doing, and give value all the way without the fear of loss. Without the search of some identity, or some name, or recognition.

These are shaped not by some fear of loss. These are shapped by the heart of a warrior who gives, who lives by the code of abundance. Who loves what he or she does. Who is passionate in their work and in the happiness of others.

Who stirs his ship called thoughts and commands them to listen to him or her. Thoughts are not the masters of mankind but a slave to them. For too long we let these thoughts dominate our lives. Now, we dominate them and tell them exactly what we want.

Water Can Flow Or Crash...Be Water My Friend...

Command these thoughts. Command them with full belief and do not let them work roit. Let it be so effortlessly, moving like water. If you do not know what I mean...here is what Bruce Lee says it.

Be like water making its way through cracks.
Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object and...
you shall find a way round or through it.
If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.

Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water.
If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup.
You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle.

You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot.
Now, water can flow or it can crash.
Be water my friend.

There is a universe of wisdom in the words of Bruce Lee. You don't have to be into Martial Arts to see that these words apply to all our lives.

Let not circumstances come to you as an enemy but rather, empty your mind, and move like water. Go over it, under it and even shape over it. You can crash and you can flow. But if I was you, be an Alpha leader and be water my friend.

For when you are water, it needs no pressure. It needs no great banging brute effort. It is one with nature and nature, and the law of abundance, will take care of the rest.

Live your life with abundance.

To Your Success

Adam Taha