We Need To Avoid Fear Like The Plague

  Written by Lawrence Bergfeld on Jan 27, 2010 4:48 PM

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Having any kind of fear in life gets us no where. Fear is a state of mind. It develops like this. Indecision and doubt cause fear to happen. Think about all kinds of criticisms you have had through out your life. You are no good. You can't do that. Your head is in the clouds. Also when people say something negative about someone else just get away from them. Because if you listen to them they are going to want to talk bad things about you. One thing you can say politely I am over it aren't you? If they do not stop in your polite way the first time. Tell them the word. STOP IT!!! That is going to put them dead in their tracks. The only fear that god gave you in life is fear of noise and fear of falling down. The rest you are responsible for. You parents do not owe you a thing. Respect them only because they brought you into this world. If they are negative or have been nasty with you just get away from them and do not see them anymore. If you had come from a situation like that then say to yourself it is none of my business what other people think about me, the only business is what I think about myself. 

Remember this small minded people talk behind other peoples back while brilliant people talk about thoughts and ideas. The thoughts and ideas you need to listen to are the ones that will be meeting your purpose. Ask yourself when listening to someone for any reason. Has this person ever left you out of a social situation or did not invite you to a party, restaurant or whatever? If yes then even if they might be right I would just think twice before following it. If you decide to follow it. Here is what you do. Listen to them and begin with the end in mind. What will be the result of what they want for me. What do I have to do? If that part does not meet your purpose get away from it immediately. By getting away from it immediately you then know what you shouldn't be doing.

Also do not try and convince people that you are right and they are wrong. Nobody wins friends that way. You can not prove to others anything. You can only prove things to yourself. If they do not like what you are doing in life they are not your friends in the first place.

Now lets go to action. You may not have all the right answers to each task that you are doing. But if you have a mastermind group that has done advertising successfully and personally then you might want to plug into one. You need to hear other peoples stories as to what they have gone through in life, so that when you run into a situation what they have gone through then you will not have to repeat the same mistake. Those people are success driven. Take action immediately and do not question it.

Remember this avoid the people who are not success driven. If you decide to have a conversation with them no matter if it is in person or on the phone they will drive you down. You obviously live once. Life is not a practice session. It is for real. Your past is dead. You will be living in the now and in the future.

                                                                                               Lawrence Bergfeld

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