You Have To Learn How To Make Yourself Approachable Or Else You Are Wasting Your Time

  Written by Lawrence Bergfeld on Feb 13, 2010 9:20 pm

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Today I have listened to a call done by my good friend Richard Dennis on Scott Ginsberg. He was talking about the articles that Scott Ginsberg has on approachability and it reminded me of my days back in college. When I was in college I lived in the dormitories both times when I went away and I have witnessed approachability first hand. The guys who had their female friends come visit them in their suites and the ones whom the girls contacted were the ones who were approachable in both of the colleges that I have went to. When I saw that the girls came over to approach the guys in my suite, I asked one of the guys why don't you visit the girls in their dorms? He said that we are players the girls come visit us. That is a prime example of approachability!!! Also the football stars who are nasty with the girls and girls are still attracted to them are still the ones who are approachable. The same situation I observed when I was in sleep away camp 18 years ago. The guys and the girls lived in different sections. The girls always came to see the guys in their bunks.

One of my childhood friends has been dating his girl friend for ten years and I trust his advise on dating and female friends because network marketing is no different from it. He mentioned when you are at a party you say hi to a girl and talk. He told me if she does not approach you after you have spoken leave her alone.

The bottom line is if woman are always approaching you then you are in first place bingo!!!

I remember when I was away on our weekend convention in Young Judaea at age 17 that this guy complained to me why does he have to approach others to talk to and why don't other people approach him? The answer was he was not approachable.

If we are not approachable our network marketing career is toast!! By applying the articles in Scott Ginsbergs website on approachability on a consistent basis people will be attracted to us just like bees are attracted to honey!! His website for the articles is this! http://www.hellomynameisscott.com/landing.aspx 

                                                                                                                                                                         Lawrence Bergfeld

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