My views on life and the internet
Read More: Welcome evreryone, I will learn from my mistakes and grow from that.
So here goes, I am devorce 49 years old, I don't have kids (not that I don't like them just didn't happend.) I love old rock and roll and new rock too.
I'm here today to introduce myself, as best I can. I haven't worked since august 2005 because of pain I have in my back and legs. I have long term insurance until I'm 65 or if they find a cure for my problem.
So I have been learning the wrong way for the past 3 years in MLM, it's sad because being disable I'm not employable. I know alot of people that are disable do work but in my case, just to make it through the day I take a lot of pills so it I have a hard time consentrating and some day's are worse then others.
Since 1990 till 1995 I was a programmer for Industrial robots in a furniture company. I had a lot of responsibility and decision to make, this was my work so I knew exacly what to do. But here on the internet almost all the decisions I make are the wrong one, so I really need to learn a lot more before i will start to make money.
What I find so different here is that we don't meet face to face, when I was working, every time I went in the work shop someone would stop me to ask for advice or sometime they had an idea they wanted me to try, if it was a bad idea, I would go see them after and tell them why their idea will not work, I was great face to face, pretty much everyone I met I would get along with. I miss that. Hope someday I will get to know some of you and eventualy be friends.
I'm not here to sell you vitamins or other products like that, I'm here to learn and teach. If you are looking for a friend to share idea's or even just talk, well I'm your man.
I have experience in life and I know what not to do in MLM, so now I am learning what to do on the internet.
Till next time
Your friend
Andre (Jack)
Hi everyone, I had a real wake up call yesterday, Mike Dillard had an email that someone was blaming his up line, well if you read my blog from a few days ago, I also was blaming my up line, I was wrong in doing that, no one put a gun to my head to spend money, I trusted my coach to much, I should have known better. I was to trusting and got caught, it will not happend again. If it's to good to be true, you can be sure it's not true. There is no free rides here, I figure if I work smart and stop trusting everyone I will be ok. I had forgoten that trust is something you earn so you can't trust someone on his or her looks or what he or she sais.
The internet is a place great place to learn, but don't learn by waisting all your money, because at the end of the day you will know a lot more but you will also be broke. I love learning and comunicating with people, that is why I'm writting again here. I will keep writting every day or so. Leave comments if you like what you read here.
Till next time
Your friend
Andre (Jack)
Hi everyone, tonight I want to talk on the subject that Paul Murphy talk about today.
My post here is getting a lot of hits but the comments I get is very few, why is that I'm not sure. What I would like is that once you read my story leave a comment please, good or bad just let me know what you think, you can also ask my view on any subject you want. I am easy to get along with, I try not to judge anyone. If your afraid I will try to sell you something, dont worry my post here is not to sell anything, I just want to get to know some of you, so dont be shy, I dont bite, looking foward to knowing you all. Thanks for reading my post here, I'll try not to put you to sleep.Till next time, have a good one.
Your friend
Andre (Jack)
My view on life these days is discouraging, why I say that well, the old saying "the love of money is the root of all evil" It's even more true today then ever before. With the internet it's so easy to take advantage of people that are looking to make fast and easy money, I was one ot those looking to make money, that is why I lost way to much money without making a dime.
In this website: BetterNetworker.com, I think it is far better then any other place I joined in the pass. It a place where we can learn so much without loosing tons of money and people are so nice, sure there must be some of those looking to pray on the weak, but I don't think they would last long in this website. I hope everyone with BetterNetworker.com will have their dream come through..
Till next time
Your friend
Jack
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About the Author: Andre Nadeau
Member Since: 04/04/2009
Company: Magnetic Sponsoring
Industry: Technology
Primary Web Site: http://1betterlife.buildingonabudget.com
Thanks for sharing your life here
Your first blog is a huge success! You know why? Because you did it!
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People are reading and people want you to succeed
Paul Murphy always has good posts.
People often forget, and those who are still very young in their 20's and younger don't realize they need to take care of themselves because events can really change in a heart beat. You're lucky you got so much from the crash with insurance and paid recovery; I hope you can take away a lot of lessons in how fragile life is... It's almost scary how easily it can be taken away.
I was watching a pod cast on Current TV (www.Current.com) where users create their own content and it gets on national television, and a guy did a pod cast on his job collecting discovered dead bodies and recording the scene as a private company and not as a government group. With this he talks about death and life and how it affects him on various levels and he shows an image of where a lady was getting a cup of coffee and she slipped/tripped and fell in the kitchen, and she died right there. And many people die in showers more than we care to know.
With your history you're definately a creative and talented man capable of alot of things, and now that you have your orientation on where to go and how to get there, persistance and habits are what are going to ensure you get there. Trouble comes when people come and go from our life, but while we focus on how fast time flys in our past we often forget just how infinitely vast the future is and the massive amount of time that still has yet to come. If you look at the past 24 hours on a clock it will have gone by like 24 minutes, if you watch the present 24 hours pass on a clock it will feel like 24 days. If you count the hours of the future 24 hours it will feel like it's 24 years away. Our brains don't have the paitence to focus on time so intently nor does it have the capasity to remember every detail of the past, what it focuses on is the here and now and what is in the most imediate future. You have all the power and right to ensure a beautiful and wonderful future as the person you are.
Don't give up, know people are watching you, reading your posts, and want you to succeed.
Thanks for the compliments
Being an older man, I have stories in my life you wouldn't believe, has you said we have to live in the now, yesterday we cant do anything about it and tomorow well we're not there yet, many things can change from now till tomorow. Writting parts of my life it does two things for me, first it help me remember why I'm here, and if it helps younger people not to make the same mistake I did, it makes me happy.
Second, it's giving me back the skills of comunication, I was good at before, hopefully I will be good again.
I have disability pension till I'm 65 so I dont realy need to do what i'm doing now, but I want to prove to myself I still can do something, one of my goal is to tell my insurance that I dont need them anymore, that would give me freedom in some way.
So thank you Remrie for reading my blog and for giving me you input on it.
Andre
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Heh... I'm 22 and I've defied laws of biology by changing genders. One man, a previous coach likened my life history to that of a 40+ year old, it's crazy as to what can happen in life even on such short scales. Writing is one of the best ways of getting stuff out there for your own reasons and it's a valuable tool, advice that I'm starting to give that I'm applying myself is 'Don't subsitute with writing actions down for actually taking actions for real'. Because it's easy to write about life, but harder and more rewarding and more exciting to actually live it.
I expect to see you around Andre. Have a wonderful day.
Sharing our lives is important
I believe I can say that I understand what you are going through because I have lived with pain now for over 25 years and I am only 47. I was not looking for anyone either because of the exact reason you are not. However, God had other plans. I am now married to a wonderful man that ONLY God could bring into my life. A very patient man. No one would hire me and that is why I am now again in network marketing, and also to fund furthering my art studies in which I am a late bloomer. As long as you are finding things to do that make you happy and keep you occupied..you will succeed. When we stop doing and start focusing on our pain, that is when we start going back downhill. Stay on your upward climb and we will be here to cheer you on your way.
Great post Marla
Great post Marla
Thanks
Thank you for sharing with me, I'm glad that you have found someone, also sorry you living with pain, no one should have to live like that. You must have had something to offer if you found someone to share your life with. Maybe your faith had something to do with it. In my case that will not happened.(that will be for another chapter maybe)
Your friend
Jack