The Attractor Factor

Written by Dee Morrison on Mar 8, 2009 3:00 pm

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It’s been awhile since the public at large was introduced to the Law of Attraction, and if you’re a realtor, a network marketer or someone who is more spiritually focused than religious, you might have found it to be powerful information. At this point, we don’t hear too much about the power of attraction, but if you work with clients, customers or sales, it is still a powerful principle to work with as you build your success. One of the challenges with the Law of Attraction and the movie The Secret is that most people don’t understand that you are always working with the power of attraction; for the positive or the not so positive. That client you need to fire was attracted to you in the same way the really great client was attracted to you. What you want is to understand the principle of attraction very clearly so that you are always attracting the clients you want, in the numbers you want so that you can prosper.

My day job, if you will, is coaching and I never cease to be amazed at the number of people who just want Santa to show up and bring them their great mate, prosperity, a successful business, etc. These people don’t want to assume responsibility for anything showing up in their lives—I’ve even had a client tell me they didn’t want to hear that they were responsible for their life challenges. This client felt she was a nice person and that there had to be another reason for the difficulties she was experiencing.

Basically you are a magnet for everything that enters your life experience, good or bad. You have a consistent ‘vibe’, if you will, about money, health, relationships, success, etc. If you are a fearful person (most of the time) with regards to money issues, you will find life hands you opportunities to experience reasons to be fearful about your finances most of the time. If you’ve had difficult relationships with men over and over and have a belief that men are a challenge to be in relationship with, well then, life will offer you that flavor of life experience in your relationships. Why is this? Because you are offering a vibration in every moment on a range of topics and this vibration attracts to you people, situations and things that are a match to that vibration—every time. This is an attraction based Universe and you are the attracter. How do you know what your vibration is, say on money? Well, when you think about money do you feel happy, do you feel secure? If you answered yes, well then you’re probably, on average, doing well financially. The same holds true for every other aspect of life.

Now, here’s the real kicker, if you are currently experiencing difficulty in an area of life experience, say it’s your health, that becomes part of your overall vibration and can create an ongoing health challenge for you despite your desire for better health. I have had people work with me who are trying to make a change, but they are working somewhere they don’t like and have a negative attitude about their circumstances. Often times a new opportunity for work presents itself, but they don’t land the new job (or the new client, or sell the home, etc) because they are not coming from a vibration of success; they’re angry or they’re anxious and the Universe yields to them a match for their overall vibration.

Ultimately success seems to come to the people who are empowered, joyous and confident…and eludes those who cannot sustain these states on a consistent basis. So, if you’re looking to have massive success in building your career, you will need to look at your predominate thoughts about your clients, your peers, yourself, money, etc. If you are honest, you will sense the connection between your average thoughts and what is showing up in your life.

I thought the movie The Secret was potentially very powerful, especially for those of us who work in client driven careers because finally there was light on the subject of how the successful are able to move from success, to success, to more success. And for those of us dealing with challenges, we could understand how our fear, doubt, anxiety and anger was impacting our success. You cannot jump from fear to joy and maintain that vibe necessarily overnight, but you can work your way bit by bit to more positive emotions through your focused intention on your habitual thoughts.

To your success!

Dee