Are Your Prospects Happily Married?

Written by Sabrina Coffin on May 17, 2010 2:46 pm

Jamie walked into the club, excited to reconnect with old friends.
She'd set this date on her calendar months ago and spent all day
getting ready for the big occasion.

The first to arrive, Jamie waited patiently for the arrival of her friends.
It had been a few years since their last gathering and she was thrilled
to hear all about what had transpired in their lives and share the excitement in her own.

As her friends filed in one by one, Jamie noticed someone new in the group
and felt the attraction stir within her. Not only was Alex strikingly handsome,
but he also seems to have the qualities she was looking for in a man.

As the evening progressed, a woman sat down next to Alex and Jamie
was disappointed to find out this was his wife. She began to mentally tear her apart to shreds.

Overcome by jealousy, Jamie's attitude left much to be desired as she verbally sliced and diced
Alex's wife with her sarcasm and cutting humor. Alex was insulted and offended by the comments
made and abruptly left the conversation in disgust, wife in tow.

Maybe you've never had this situation happen to you, but if you are in network marketing,
I imagine you've encountered people along the way who have torn you and your business to shreds.

Perhaps you have been the one who was doing the slicing and dicing.

If and when you meet someone who already has a business, consider them married.
Don't be the first one to tell them their products are overpriced, their comp plan doesn't pay
and they're involved in a company lacking in integrity.

In other words, don't tell them their wife has a big wart on her nose, is overweight,
can't cook and has no personality!

They'll put up a wall so fast you won't know what hit you!

It's much better to find those areas that you can agree upon and partner together
to share what is working for you and how you can help each other. It comes down
to the partnership and if that person ever decides their business isn't working out for them,
they will have already built a relationship based on trust with you and perhaps join you in
your business.

If someone is married to their MLM, don't tempt them to cheat on their spouse.
There are plenty of prospects who are single and looking.

Sabrina Coffin
360.665.0183

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