Do You Have The Support Of Your Spouse And Children ?


I am writing this blog tonight to share some of my thoughts with you.

My Name is Steven Squillace and I am 46 years young.  I am married to the Women Of My Dreams and the Lord has Blessed us with 4 Wonderful and Healthy Children.  I do have to share a very strange scenario with you though, even though I Believe in My Wife and Children and I Encourage them to pursue their Dreams, I don't get the same support back from them. Although it is a very tough pill to swallow I do have to admit that it was really tough at first getting ridiculed from both my wife and children asking me the never ending question have you made any money yet, So I would respond to them saying it's not about the money it's about becoming a student of the industry and becoming a better more well rounded individual and someone that is going to give back to the industry and not just take from it. The game changer for me was when I came across an ebook called "Success In 10 Steps" This was the book the catapolted my networking career from wandering around and trying to find my direction to becoming a more firmly planted and knowledgeable Mentor and Network Marketer. I Truly Believe that finding this ebook was Truly an answer to Prayer, Now I have the tools and the proper training That are going to allow me to Finally "Own My Life".

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About the Author: Steven Squillace

Member Since: 05/08/2009

I'm a Distributor For:: Vitamark International

Other Company: Other

Industry: Training and Development

Primary Web Site: http://stevensquillace.vitamark.com/

Comments



They will believe!

Hey Steve, I hear ya brother. I can definitely identify. But I truly know that our belief and desires will make them Believers one day. And that will be awesome!

Lynn Jones — Thu, 06/03/2010 - 11:10pm

Nothing Is Gonna Break My Stride Lynn !

I Won't Give Up And I'm Not Giving In !!!!

Steven Squillace — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 6:17am

Your a man with a plan, and the desire to pull it off!

I found that planning weekly family time did wonders for the attitudes, and for my business! It's all about balance, after school today I'm taking my daughter to the carnival, she needs to know we both get rewarded for a week of hard work and now its time to play!

Paul Murphy — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 7:12am

Steven I just want to say I

Steven I just want to say I believe in you and I know your family believes in you too!

Stefanie Sanspree — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 7:56am

Love even your closets relationships into Success!!!

Hi Steven,

Your point is well taken and I have a T-Shirt. Your closest family members have the hardest time seeing you as you where instead of what you are becoming...

It is important to stay the course and show them everything I am doing is for you.

You have the tools now comes the faith,love, and tenacity to run the race before you.

We believe in you and so should you believe in you.

You are truly winner, For Christ did not make any junk...

Thank you Steven,

Be of good courage for in due season you will reap a massive harvest.

Danny & Laura

Danny & Laura J... — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 8:40am

sharing the same sentiments...

Yes, Steve...thank you for having the courage to speak up. We all WANT to say that we have very supportive mates and family members in this type of industry...but it is usually ONLY AFTER we start to see results or shall I say...THEY see results.

My Husband has been in marketing before, so the patience level is a bit more lenient.....

I am glad that I have had the success, so that his faith in my ability is never questioned.

Much success to you my friend,

~ME~

Michaela Ellis — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 9:50am

You will get there, Steven

You are a great example of someone who works hard, helps others unconditionally and therefore, I know you will be successful with the wonderful tools we now have. I, like so many others, believe in you.

Susan Harjehausen — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 9:54am

A Proven Path With Footprints That Can Be Followed!

I can totally relate Steven. There are alot of dream killers out there. Often times the people we love the most are in that catagory. Thank God we believe in ourselves and that confidence can carry us through any storm, and eventually the storm settles. Look at us now! We have found a home that has everything we need to help those who are a part of the 97% who are struggling, thinking it's their fault... You are such a light Steven, thank you for shining so bright on this community.

Jenny Wudtke — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 10:30am

Thank You My Wonderful Friends !

Your Words Of Encouragement Mean So Much To Me !
You Are Truly A Blessing !

Thank You I Love You All !

Your Friend For Life,

Steven Squillace :-)

Steven Squillace — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 10:46am

Don't dwell on it

I just Don't mention my business to my friends and family unless they ask about it, even if they ask i find a slick way to change their focus and attention away from what I do in mlm and all this(hehehe i'm so smart). So just keep getting advice from the right people and you'll be allright bud

reggy charles — Fri, 06/04/2010 - 2:36pm

I am there

As with so many,I too have a family asking about the results and is it paying off. I pointed to the flowers I planted last year that had to come out of dormancy and are now in full bloom. The same will happen with your business, It will be in full bloom and they will be amazed.

Zelphina Pierson — Tue, 06/08/2010 - 11:26am


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