My understanding of this question may be incomplete but I do believe it is linked to personalities and how people percieve other human beings. If we treat people as numbers then it might be more difficult to get people into your family, but if you treat them as humans and you really want to give them a chance to lead a life that offers a more secure situation than they would otherwise experience, then it would be an easier task. This last thing needs personal growth and many does not want to grow as they are content with the state they are in. There are other factors also that play for example have you decided for real to build your business so that you yourself would reach the goal you want others to reach as well? If we follow the pattern that is presented, depending on the enterprise you are conducting, then you should be able to increase your circle of friends.
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