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[Liane Bisaillon Contribution Level: 2]

You can't control others’ acts, but you can control your reaction to their acts, and that is what counts most to you.

No one can make you feel any negative emotion -- fear, anger, or inferiority -- without your express permission.

There will always be people who find perverse enjoyment in upsetting others, or who simply play upon your emotions so that they can use you for their own selfish purposes. Whether or not they are successful depends entirely upon you and how you react to their negative behaviors. When you are forced to deal with such people, recognize from the outset that they are trying to upset you, not because of something you may have done to them, but because of some problem they have with themselves.

Tell yourself, "This isn't about me. I will not allow this person to upset me. I am in control of my emotions and my life."

Napoleon Hill

[Juanita Waterman Company: Empower Network, LLC Contribution Level: 9]

You know Lianne that was a Challenge for me I played victim for 47 years. Now I conquer everything with Love. It is my Shield. Is it Challenging for me Yes. But love is the most powerful energy in the world. The book "The Greatest Secret in the World" by Og Mandino is a great journey to go on.
Love Juanita

[Philipp Knechtle Company: GiveOpp Contribution Level: 1]

The only thing we can control is our vibration! And it's the only thing we HAVE to control I learned that through Abraham Hicks (I LOVE THEM!)

Once we get really, really freaking good at this we will only attract those people that are a vibrational match to what we are looking for. We don't look for whiners, tire-kickers, confused, broke lamers BUT we can't focus on them (activate them in our vibration) and expect that the top-producers show up. WE have to be the top-producers with relentless focus and invincible emotions. It's a WHOLE different crowd that gathers!

Thank you!
Phill

[Maurice Reese Company: GVO Hosting Contribution Level: 2]

To me that's the number one key to success is believing in yourself. If you don't believe in you then who else will. When negative comes in to you redirect that energy and say I am a champion!