I know one of the problems that your experiencing right now is that your
friends and family are saying bad things about your business.
If this things are happening to you, don`t worry. A lot of entrepreneurs
are also experiencing this kind of problem. In this article, I will help you
find new friends that will support you in what you do.
A few years ago when I am just starting in my business. All of my friends
are very negative about what I am doing. I am only 18 years old at that
time and i`m already talking about building a business.
A lot of my friends hated me for taking some action to become a successful
entrepreneur. After a few years in business, all of my negative friends are
gone. I am now surrounded with positive and successful people in business.
So how did I get rid of my negative friends?
1. I remove all the negative people in my life. – When I become an
entrepreneur, I know that I will become a successful business person
someday and I never doubted it. Since my old friends are very toxic and
they pull me down. I decided to remove them from my life because they are just
slowing me down to my success. I love my friends, but they will not go where i`m going.
I just decided that I will only hangout with positive people that are also
committed in becoming successful in their chosen field.
2. Be the person that you want to attract. – I noticed that when
I start thinking big, i also started to attract successful entrepreneurs in my
life. Most of my friends right now are successful entrepreneurs and I learn
a lot from this people.
The reason that I attracted them is because I also wanted to be like them.
When you are committed to become successful entrepreneur, you will start
to attract successful people to you. Successful people will like you because
you are also doing the same thing that they are doing when they are just
starting in business.
3. I start increasing my VALUE to the world. – When you acquire
some business skills that can help other people you will noticed that the
people that you serve will be naturally attracted to you. The reason that
this is happening is because people are programed to feel an ATTRACTION
to those people that has value.
Just focus on improving yourself and you will start to have options.
A lot of people will come to you and your job is to pick those people that
you want to be with.
4. Qualify the people around you. - When I meet a new person, I
always ask them a lot of questions. By asking questions, I can tell if that
person will be the person that I want to hangout with. If that person did not
meet my requirements, I will walk away politely.
I mean.. why would you hangout with someone that has no goals and
ambition in life? I`m not saying that i`m rude to people that are not like
me. I just don`t spend large amount of time with them. I always greet
everyone that i know when i meet them. However, I only spend quality
time with those people that I want to be.
5. I stop arguing with other people. - When someone say some bad
things about me, I just smile and leave. I don`t waste time arguing with
people because its a waste of time and energy.
I also suggest that you do the same. When someone gives a bad comment
about your ambitions and goals, just smile and just change the topic or
I hope that you learn a lot from the tips that I gave you today. I also hope
that you apply this into your everyday life.
Post your strategy on how you deal with your negative friends so people can see it.
Have a great day and God bless you my friend.
- Ian Valeza