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How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Steve Jaffe on Thu Jul 23, 2009 5:17 pm

This message I wrote this for my blog has a powerful teaching that will help you in your MLM and direct sales business. It's longer than a typical post, but worth it (I suspect most will agree). I had to share it with you guys. My hope is it inspires you in a powerful way.

Please comment if this post adds value for you...

Enjoy!

Steve Jaffe

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In southeastern Utah is an area so sublime, epic and imagined, it literally forced me to tears when I saw it, experienced it, had the pleasure of journeying through it.

Looking back, the trip taught me many things - about myself, my life, my aspirations.

And more recently I see how that epic experience engendered a profound teaching about business. I want to share that teaching with you here, as it is profoundly important to your business also.

I have been a journeyer. In my early 20s I led outdoor trips professionally to places like Yosemite National Park, Rocky Mountain National Park. I have spent up to 30 days at a stretch backpacking, climbing, fishing, hiking. Reflecting with groups of up to 13 people.

On a close friend’s recommendation, years ago, I set about to explore Utah’s Escalante canyonlands on a rare solo trip. A 2 day drive from California where I lived at the time, I spent 5 days hiking into a canyon called Coyote Gulch. Here’s what I saw:

In the canyon I found myself inside a diamond, a jewel, a rare space special for millennia. Three hundred foot high canyon walls enveloped a narrow expanse of dirt and sand so pristine, even the dirt seemed clean. What startled me most was the colors. The canyon walls glinted with red and pink and white flecked stone, in luminescent, vibrant tones. I vaguely felt held inside a painting of epic significance.

The days were long, warm, the air clean and wholesome. It took days to acquaint to the quietness. Mostly I remember the river and the ambient energy it possessed.

When I started the journey into this canyon, I had no idea quite what to expect.

Out the outset were puddles. Small, regular, well formed. Notable – the only water I perceived for miles in this Utah desert canyonland. As I stepped past the puddles I felt something emerging, something vague on the corners of thought, sensed something opening, stretching, becoming.

As my journey into the canyon progressed the first day, the puddles became more frequent, every few feet or so. Then I noticed one puddle trickled into another, and another, and soon the puddles subsided and gave forth a sustained onward trickle. Narrow, maybe three inches wide, but constant. A tiny flow.

A few hours into the canyon I stopped and set down my heavy pack which carried my tent and food and camp stove and sleeping bag and the sundry necessities of wilderness camping. Wide white and pink walls towered overhead, bleeding to a transient bright blue sky.

At a bend in the canyon I heard the sounds of a cascade. From a crack in the canyon wall a green plant grew, teeming with color and energy, and sustained by water seeping through fissures in the rock, feeding the plant its vital life, with the sun. Set against the harsh sweeping rock the plant seemed incongruous – a mini oasis set on a vertical wall.

Standing next to the plant, the sensation of life was palpable. I felt like I was standing near a waterfall, only rarer, more special. More significant as water can be scarce in Escalante.

Somehow, water lay behind the seemingly dry walls of the Canyon.

As I continued further into the canyon, the trickle I had perceived grew. Widening over time, it became a flow a foot wide with a continuous directional flow farther into the canyon. Somehow, the trickle was growing.

The Waters of Coyote Gulch, Grand Staircase-Escalante National Monument, Utah, USAFive hours into the journey, the trickle was three feet wide. Audible murmuring, the stream serenaded my meandering.

By the second day, the stream was ten feet wide at stretches. The occasional vegetation emerging from the rock delighted in daylight grandeur.

On the third day of my journey, about twelve miles into the canyon, the now-fifteen foot wide Coyoye Creek merged with the grand Escalante River, at a point where the Escalante River was fifty feet wide at a stretch.

Crossing the Escalante River here, I had to unbuckle the straps on my pack. Were I to take a fall, the pack might have drowned me if I weren’t able to let it go. It took vast concentration practiced through years in the backcountry to cross the river comfortably.

In that canyon I experienced and saw many things. A natural rock arch crossed over the river, a site that nearer the road would have attracted thousands of visitors per year to see the rare site.

My map noted curious markings at one point. Following a faint path toward the canyon wall, I came onto colored markings on the rock. Pictographs drawn by ancient inhabitants of the region, the Native Americans before we called this place America.

The colors of the rock and the epic sky live on in my mind – surreal, grand, almost ostentatiously beautiful and serene.

But mostly I remember the river. How it started as puddles. Became a feint trickle. Grew by degrees to a stream and then a river and then merged with a river powerful, mighty, ancient.

It started me to see how quickly the puddles had become a mighty raging river in only 10 miles.

Know this: Everything starts with a trickle, including your business. Your early steps will create small happenings. Puddles.

You create a few videos or post a few articles and generate a few leads.

You post an enlightening comment to Twitter, and two people Tweet back.

You publish some comments to a forum. A handful of people respond thanking you for the insight.

The trickles will grow.

You start generating a lead here and there. Two leads a week.

Shortly it’s five leads a week, one lead a day.

Puddles.

Then it’s a few leads a day. Now you have 20 leads.

What startled me was the puddles, how they grew into a river.

Get excited about your puddles. Celebrate the trickles.

Just as the grand Escalante River grew from trickles, so too will your business.

Just as potent life emerged from barren rock in the presence of water, so too will business spring forth from your trickles.

The plants in Escalante do not pout about the amount of water they receive. They do not lie dejected and sullen. They embrace the little water they receive, and spring forth teeming from it.

So too must you celebrate your trickles. When you start to generate a few leads, shine this success to your list.

Publish it to a forum.

Tell your friends.

Glow, emanate, reveal.

Your trickles will grow. They too will become a constant, one foot wide stream as you generate a small handful of leads each day.

Soon you will have a three foot wide stream. Onward and onward as your experience and efforts compound, your stream will grow.

Contributing to your flow, others will help. New business partners will join your business, new tributaries joining your stream.

Like Coyote Creek meeting the mighty Escalante River, your business can become mighty, flowing onward, supported by powerful players who educate and support you.

Business partners who join your business and produce, produce, produce, gush forth business that contributes to your own.

Celebrate the puddles. Aggrandize the trickles.

When you make small gains, get the word out.

Do not judge yourself harshly. Remember, to those starving for water in the desert, your trickle might sustain them.

Do not compare yourself to those earning tens of thousands of dollars per month. To the person out of work who needs a home based business, that you’ve chosen a home based business is powerful.

Do not compare yourself to those generating hundreds of leads per month. To the person who’s never generated a lead, that you’re learning to generate leads is impressive.

Never underestimate the importance of your seemingly small trickles.

The favorable email you receive from a reader who appreciated your autoresponder email.

The forum reply to a comment you made that inspired someone.

Celebrate your tiny successes, and they will cascade.

You must be open to accepting success to attract more of it. Gratitude pulses your ability to receive. Have gratitude for your small successes, and they will compound.

When I reflect back on Escalante, I mostly remember the river.

From the seemingly dry recesses of your life, your mind, your heart, your life, success is burbling. Open to its effusive flow.

Somewhere, around the next sweeping bend in the river, or the one beyond that, a wide mighty river is flowing.

Follow the stream, follow the flow, and sing your success loudly.

A mighty river beckons.

Go meet it.
Steve Jaffe, MBA
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Tim Catlett on Thu Jul 23, 2009 6:38 pm

Steve Jaffe,

Thank you very much for your timely post. It was very thought provoking, memorable, & timely. I too see but also have at times been a little discouraged through the track set of my own business...the proverbial statement, "Patience is a virtue" seems like a 5 inch wide pill to swallow at times.

However its very true your experience that you found a relation within business principles. A rain drop comes into a trickle then to a small stream which in turn through steady movement (around obstacles and threw obstacles) becomes a part of a mighty river.

Shoot if we even view it as to the rain cycle, our business, we can feel that with the inset focus of our vision and pure desire, we will acquire our goal through whatever "obstacle" we may come across. Our consistent efforts builds for the better good of everyone, if we truly direct in that regard.

I'll leave this comment of gratitude with this... FOCUS always stay focused on growing as a person that emits real value. It's very easy for us to become so critical of ourselves, shunning our action/pursuits & decide to place our hand in another opportunity or enhancement program for our method of operation.

While keeping up to date and creating an advantage with our dynamically changing environment is important and helpful. We must not feel like that is the solution...our solution rest within ourselves to put forth a steady mentally driven set of actions...not simply in just a program, webinar, new technology etc. etc. It lies within the strength of your purpose.

Thank You Again Steve, I hope your experience reaches down home with others as it has done with me.

Tim C. :D
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Dalisha Carmichael on Thu Jul 23, 2009 7:34 pm

This was a very inspiring post. It shows that even tho we are not growing as quickly as we may want, the small steps and successes aka puddles will turn into larger success aka rivers. I really love this analogy! Thanks for sharing this!
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Steve Jaffe on Fri Jul 24, 2009 9:48 am

Thanks for the kind words Tim and Dalisha.

It really is all about emanating value, and letting the successes build.

Being patient is a challenge when we want our businesses to grow... *right now!*. Consistency, consistency is the key.

Much of the meaning behind my Escalante experience became clear as I grew comfortable with the fact growing a direct sales business can be simple, if I let it. Just keep putting out content and value day, day out, make that a routine. It will grow.

Wishing you folks much success with your business.

Steve
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Bridget Johnson on Sat Jul 25, 2009 9:16 am

Steve - this is an article you should have posted somewhere. I would love to post your this article on my Facebook - using your name, of course, and a twitter quote.

Can you send a link so whoever wants to post this can.

Back to the review - I could totally see myself there your word pictures were exactly that word pictures. Great a colorful story.

I too needed this info. I'm at the slow trickle - I'm almost at 1 lead a day and man can you stop being thankful for that one lead. It's like the kid at Christmas that opens a present and loves it and then sees he has another one - throws that one to the side for the next and the next.

I'm so doing that with my leads. Instead of being thankful that I have one that I can call and help - I'm being the selfish kid that doesn't want to just help one person I want 10 people to help. But if I can't help one how can I help ten?
I used to beg anyone and everyone to join my business (didn't work)
Now people CALL ME PLEADING to join. Here's how...

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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Eileen Burns on Sat Jul 25, 2009 10:03 am

HI Steve - this is exactly how to tell "your" story. We all have a story in us. I especially enjoyed the journey you took discovery and the realization your business will grow as long as you consistently work your business. You will attract adventurers like yourself.

Have you planned your next journey? What does it look like?
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Steve Jaffe on Sun Jul 26, 2009 9:57 am

Bridget Johnson wrote:Can you send a link so whoever wants to post this can.


Hi Bridget-
I appreciate the request. Here's a link to the story as it appears on my blog:
http://sjaffe.squarespace.com/articles/2009/7/23/the-most-inspiring-river-in-the-world-and-how-to-profit-from.html

Tweeting content that inspires, entertains or instructs is a *great* way to deliver value to your following.

Keep up the lead flow, be positive, and it will grow!

Hi Eileen-
This story typifies a deeper expression of "my story" than the angle many of us can say, something like "I used to do the old school network marketing tactics, then I focused on online marketing and my business took off."

I've come to recognize that when I watch a video someone created, I'm more influenced by the cadence of their words, the expression on their face, their apparent conviction and confidence, and the energy behind their words than the actual words they say. Nonverbals.

With that, as I've matured in my business, I've come to focus increasingly on whom I'm being when I create content. It's who I'm being that comes through in my videos, in my articles.

Early on, I used to try to mimic the content I saw others creating - the topics, the voice, the message. "That person's videos get a lot of views. I should make videos just like his". I think everyone starts that way, and frankly, it's a good way to get going and it can be profitable.

But the fufillment has grown as I've increasingly discovered how to share my authentic voice. The more authentic I've been in my content, the more enthusiastic the response.

Be willing to dive deeper and discover your authentic voice. Share the stories only you can tell in the way only you can tell them. Compared to the masses of similar content, you will stand out.

Take some risks in your content. You will be rewarded.

Steve

PS: Next adventures I'm contemplating: The mystical coastline of British Columbia, the teeming grandeur of Costa Rica...
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Emma O'Connor on Sun Jul 26, 2009 1:25 pm

Thank You Thank You Thank You
As a budding blogger I am inspired by your exquisite use of words, I was with you at every pause and every glance.
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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Jerome Ratliff on Sun Jul 26, 2009 1:33 pm

Great Post Steve.

I agree with you 100%. It's all about little progressive accomplishments over time that lead to great things. i.e. "Your River"

If everyone can see the value in the little things they do now that can create massive results in the long run, more will realize there is no quick path to success.

And, what did it start with, "Making the first step, that one little thing".

Thanks for sharing Steve.

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Re: How To Profit More - Lesson Learned In A Stunning Scene

Postby Steve Jaffe on Tue Jul 28, 2009 8:16 am

Thanks Emma and Jerome.

Glad I could add value for you guys too.

Steve
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