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[Russell Corkins Company: Empower Network, LLC Contribution Level: 2]

Do you believe that "failure" is the result of an action or an in-action? I discovered I needed to change the way that I thought.
For me failure is a mindset, and if I allow myself to succumb to that mindset, then that is what I will become. I had to strike the word Failure from my vocabulary. There are NO failures, only different results. Impossible, another word that had to be stricken from my vocabulary. The only impossibilities are the limits that I impose. Think, it, dream it, believe it, and it will be so.
Have you discovered you've had to strike the same words from your vocabulary? What's your story?

[Hugo Fortin Company: WorldVentures Contribution Level: 2]

Hi,

I like your post!

There no such things as a faillure. You have to learn from your mistakes. It really happening between your ears. Personal development or self help can really help you to overcome the idea that you are a faillure.

Hugo

[jayne miller Company: The Six Figure Mentors Contribution Level: 2]

Hi Russell,
I agree failure is all going on in the mind.
How many times as a child did your parents and teachers say "of course you can do it, you can do anything when you put your mind to it?"
The word "can't" is also in my "not allowed" vocabulary .
It's better to go through life with a can do attitude and not being afraid to step out of our comfort zones whilst putting a little more effort into those things that we find a little more challenging
KR
Jayne

[Joyce Penner Company: Life Force International Contribution Level: 8]

Good topic Russ. Failure is definitely a result of inaction or inactivity. I've done my share of "failing forward" and the difference for me was: I LEARNED.

I took the action, found out if it worked or didn't, and then moved forward.

But never in all that time, with all those experiences behind me, did I ever feel my goals were impossible. I saw too many achieve what I wanted and knew it was just the mindset I was carrying around that was holding me back.

Personal development made the difference for me. Can't recommend it enough.
Joyce

[Reynaldo Perales Contribution Level: 3]

Personally...

..It is hard to change a mindset a negative one because such person doesn't know it
and if that person knows..does not know how to go about it..

Let me give you an example that is so easy to change a mindset:

Now, I do not consult person to person only meetings, seminar, not anymore..but
found me somehow which is unusual because I do not stay in one place very
long..anyway, I let her in because she was a woman no way I would close the door
on her or not answer the door..

She had all kinds of complains about her problems including her husband had left her
for another woman..etc. I knew a solution that had work before without fail..I grab
her and gave a big tight hug and a lip kiss and she was shocked and I explain to her
that her problems were over..

Being young and good looking she then grab me and gave me a lip kiss and left smiling
and eventually became a millionaire..she was part of the team by the way..know why?

Alright, I'll tell you..she did not forget the kiss and hug from well, I said it already she
kep it in her mind she change those ugly thoughts replace them with a very positive
successful person..me and heavens knows what else she added to it haha..

Believe it or not, it is true..you do the same but something different or a kiss if you
have the gall to do it..Think something that can surprise or shock a prospect you know
what I mean..

Any woman here need a kiss real bad?..

__R

[Lynda Cromar Company: Empower Network, LLC Contribution Level: 9]

I have learned especially when I "fail" it is temporary. That is a hard thing for many people. When you realize its just a stumble, and it just means you have something you need to learn, it becomes a different thing than what we are taught to believe. It is only final if we decide it is. So we must defect from that common belief that its something bad. Its only feedback. It only means we have something to learn. It only means what we decide that it means! And also like you said, inaction is also a form of failure.

Even if we decide that the action we decided to take was not the right action, its still better than no action at all. There is no worse failure in my book than the fear of even getting started!

[jayne miller Company: The Six Figure Mentors Contribution Level: 2]

I find this hilarious. I'm struggling to comprehend how this would work, however it sounds great!

[Reynaldo Perales Contribution Level: 3]

Personally...

..if we continue to think like we always thought we continue to get
what we always got..that is not enough..

[Joyce Penner Company: Life Force International Contribution Level: 8]

I find this hilarious. I'm struggling to comprehend how this would work, however it sounds great!

I am curious to dig a little deeper into what you mean here. Can you expound on it? Make us think a little more !
Thanks
Joyce

[Reynaldo Perales Contribution Level: 3]

Personally...

..we live in a thought world negative to create the opposite for pleasure experiences..

In short, we replace those negative thoughts for opposite ones right?..How else can
we survive?

We replace negative thoughts with an idea, a plan, system etc..we create a feeling
a sensing that Life picks up and materialize it..of course, we gotta get out of the way
meaning, by staying ourselves with the present moment keep coming back to that
moment..

Life is a constructive force..it builds it do not destroy..associating, going through anything
that is not constructive we are on our own..that is why we can't hate a person or condemn
such person a race."Love thy enemies"..we really hating Life ourselves because there is only
one Life taking care of the whole human race..

As my up post about one of my associates I never met her until that day " She experience a
hug, kiss, successful man, good looking and a nice butt..I actually bend down to pick something
on purpose for her to see my you know what..enough to make her mouth watered..

Hey!..I was working on a solution for her OKAY? not trying to seduce her haha..

When she left every thought that she had about me from then on was constructive!..My success,
my body a creation of Life, even performing with me in bed constructive because it creates babies..
meaning Life was involved that grants our desires..

TIP: When performing in bed with the opposite sex focus about six inces from the belly down
putting us in the present moment..guess who is now performing?..Life of course because it is
construtive..not an illussion we can actually manifest our desire a lot faster..I promise it won't
take us away from the pleasure.

From now on stay with constructive thoughts because now we know why are told to stay positive
but nobody knows how..

The reason why it worked fast for my associate not thinking about herself because we don't
have a self we think that a life of situations is us..

I didn't do a better job because it's to damn early for me!..

When reading Mikes books be sure that we don't see ourselves succeeding instead see him
we are all the same to Life because there only one Life and he is already a big success but
it is our thought and you know the rest..Have A great Day!

__R