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[Chris Brown Contribution Level: 3]

I have a number of guys many of them who have been with me for 3 years and have paid their autoship but still have not talked to a single person.

These guys are emotionally beat up by their wives (* Guys emotionally beat up their wives too but in these situations it is the wife.) One of these guys his wives tell him he will never be successful, can't do this because you don't know computers, ect...

I talked to my friend who works with billionaires in order to get them through their mental blocks. He also shared with me what they need to do in order to get past this.

Men: needs to share their vision the men will say stuff like I want car, big houses, ect...
Woman: needs share her vision the woman will say stuff like save for kids educations, have a savings, ect...

They are both saying the same thing but because of the difference in communication this can cause problems. The husband this well of course we will have this stuff after than then we can get the fun stuff.

Because of the way woman communicate and the relationship that woman have are strong they have a 3-4 times greater success rate than men.

QUESTION FOR WOMAN! Do you have people in your team where the men does this to their wives.

[Erika Samperio Solares Company: Lightyear Wireless Contribution Level: 2]

I have a number of guys many of them who have been with me for 3 years and have paid their autoship but still have not talked to a single person.

These guys are emotionally beat up by their wives (* Guys emotionally beat up their wives too but in these situations it is the wife.) One of these guys his wives tell him he will never be successful, can't do this because you don't know computers, ect...

I talked to my friend who works with billionaires in order to get them through their mental blocks. He also shared with me what they need to do in order to get past this.

Men: needs to share their vision the men will say stuff like I want car, big houses, ect...
Woman: needs share her vision the woman will say stuff like save for kids educations, have a savings, ect...

They are both saying the same thing but because of the difference in communication this can cause problems. The husband this well of course we will have this stuff after than then we can get the fun stuff.

Because of the way woman communicate and the relationship that woman have are strong they have a 3-4 times greater success rate than men.

QUESTION FOR WOMAN! Do you have people in your team where the men does this to their wives.

Not sure if I understand this question?

So you are asking if woman do the whole communication (and basically the work) of the man's business?

[Chris Brown Contribution Level: 3]

I have a number of guys many of them who have been with me for 3 years and have paid their autoship but still have not talked to a single person.

These guys are emotionally beat up by their wives (* Guys emotionally beat up their wives too but in these situations it is the wife.) One of these guys his wives tell him he will never be successful, can't do this because you don't know computers, ect...

I talked to my friend who works with billionaires in order to get them through their mental blocks. He also shared with me what they need to do in order to get past this.

Men: needs to share their vision the men will say stuff like I want car, big houses, ect...
Woman: needs share her vision the woman will say stuff like save for kids educations, have a savings, ect...

They are both saying the same thing but because of the difference in communication this can cause problems. The husband this well of course we will have this stuff after than then we can get the fun stuff.

Because of the way woman communicate and the relationship that woman have are strong they have a 3-4 times greater success rate than men.

QUESTION FOR WOMAN! Do you have people in your team where the men does this to their wives.

Not sure if I understand this question?

So you are asking if woman do the whole communication (and basically the work) of the man's business?

No that is not my question at all =)
My question is I find the wifes emotional beating down their husbands I was wounder for you woman out there if your have husbands doing to the same thing to the woman in your sales team.

I'm sure it happens in my sales team I only have 1 wife in my team who has voiced it to me.

[Michaelangelo Flores Contribution Level: 1]

Based on what I've heard from a lot of people - the naysayers suddenly get quiet once the money starts coming. Til then, just tough it out.

As bigoted as I may sound - that's why I don't bother being in a relationship with someone that doesn't support my dreams. I drew the line in the sand right from the beginning.

Just my $0.02.

[Lydia Baker Contribution Level: 1]

Hi

Im not sure I quite get it either but I too would not want to be in a relationship with no support. I am very fortunate that my partner is behind me 100% with everything I want to do, not only in business ventures but also in my personal life.

I do strongly believe that you need positive people around you to keep you focused and your mind on the right path. It is very easy to give up on things when you do not have backing.

I hope for all other internet marketers that they have the backing from everybody close to them, I'm sure it will help you on your way to success!

Good luck in all you do.

[Mario Sanders Company: Life Force International Contribution Level: 6]

Luckily I have the support of my wife and family with me in business. But she will not help nor hinder me in what I want to do.
Yes there are dream stealers and the nay-sayers we have to tend with all the time. But when they want something there is no problem in getting what they want. No questions asked on how to pay for them.
She helps me when we are passing out brochures and talking to people and even showing how much weight she has lost, and of course, how much healthier she is now. But she does not get involved with the business side of it.
Next time, show the dream stealers and the nay-sayers what they are saying no to. Then show them what you are doing and making a furture for yourself so you could leave that JOB!

[Betsy Vayda Company: Seacret Direct Contribution Level: 3]

Chris,

I believe you are asking if we have men on our team whose wives are not supportive. And, in fact, are emotional abusive regarding their wive's chances of being successful.

The answer is yes, I do.

But it is not the norm.

In general, I have seen many more relationships where men are emotionally abusive to their wives than vis versa. If that is the relationship, then MLM success is just one more thing to be abusive and derisive about.

The issue is much bigger than how you state your goals for your business. It is a broken relationship.

I agree with what was also said, once the money starts flowing in the non-supportive spouse gets alot quieter.