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Hi Better Networkers:I'm trying to understand "people" more. Still amazes me...talked to 4 different people today...all say no one was making them happy?? What is this...???    Comments? PowerbyCarleton

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Member Since: 08/14/2008

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Unfortunately not too many

Unfortunately not too many people  are happy nowadays..some people tend to wear their emotions on their shoulders...I think that you have to concentrate on the positve until it engulfs all of your negative thoughts.

Marc Marseille — Fri, 10/17/2008 - 6:49pm

The reason is very simple...

No one else can make you happy. Happiness must come from within.

Melinda White — Sat, 10/18/2008 - 3:27pm

Achieving Happiness Is An Inside Job!

Achieving Happiness Is an Inside Job!

About twenty or thirty years ago,  I used to have feelings of serious regret because I felt it my obligation to 'make' other people 'happy' and I just couldn't seem to do it no matter how hard I tried.

One Sunday I visited a worship service presided over by the Reverend Dr Johnnie Coleman in Chicago Illinois, when her Christ Universal Temple was located at 8600 South State Street in Chicago.  On that day and on several other days afterwards when I visited CUT I learned about spiritual and philosophical concepts that wouild have change the way I think and believe about my relationships to God, to Other People, to Myself, and to The Comos.

On that my first visit, or a day soon after, at CUT I heard  the minister say.  "A lot of you people are going around thinking that somebody else is supposed to make you 'happy.'  You've got it all wrong.  It's your job to make yourself happy; and it is other people's jobs to make themselves 'happy."  She made several other statements that day which have woven their way into the warp and woof of my mental fabric; but that statement "tuck, (as the old folks used to say) in my craw."  I stuck and it is still sticking until this day.

I took that statement to heart.  I turned it over and over in my mind, and realized that I had been carrying a heavy load of guilt fealing because I could never quite please significent others in my life; and I had also been expecting from others something that they are not obligated to or even able to do or be, on my behalf.  

I gradually learned that it is my responsibility to learn the real meaning of achieving propriety in thought feeling and action.  I learned that happiness is really a by-product of ones setting and achieving personal goals and unselfishly sharing ones blessings with others, and appreciating the desereved as well as undeserved favors and challenges of existence.  

I guess it in part or even perhaps in whole what Jesus was saying to his Disciples when he said "You must be born again."

I am no longer burdened with thoughts of Someone should or must make me happy or I should or must make someone else happy.  My focus is on being the best person I can be, helping as many others be the best they can be, and enjoying and appreciating the process.  In short........










PerryJ GibsonSr — Sat, 10/18/2008 - 4:53pm

Question of being happy

I wondered what question you had asked these 4 people, Carleton, and why?

We fortunately do not need to understand people. They also sometimes do not understand us. Everyone needs someone who goes along side.

However, the answer showed a need and if they mentioned this to you, prompted by your question, do you feel you should do something about it by sharing your happiness or giving an advice how to solve the problem?



Nanette Althof — Wed, 10/22/2008 - 10:05am

This Is For You Carleton and A Message for all

From: Linda Britt [email protected]

This message is for all those who live in the USA or will be in the USA during the FREEDOM TOUR 2008-09!!

If you aren't maybe we will have to convince Michael Dlouhy to do a tour in your area!!:-)

All what is the Freedom Tour??

My personal friend and mentor Michael Dlouhy, who by the way was personally mentored by Tom 'Big Al' Schreiter, will be doing a LIVE seminar in 40-42 different cities!

What can it do for you?

Well, have you ever wondered why one person get's "it" and another looks at you like you are talking some crazy language? Ever wonder why some people respond and act completely opposite to the same news? Would you like to be able to understand those around you? This seminar will certainly change your life! All aspects of your life. Business, personal and whatever lies between.

This is a must seminar for ANYONE, who would like to change their lives!

If you would like to attend this life changing event for FREE, yes I said FREE, please email me with the subject line being the city you wish to attend, there are around 40-42 cities this is going to take place in. Then I will send you the link to sign up at!

Don't sit by and let this one pass you up!

Michael will give you the straight scoop on.....

* Understanding your family members...ALL of them

* Improving communication with co-workers

* Increasing your income by knowing how others think

* Time & Money Freedom - on the same day - again & again

* The 5 "must have" factors for career success...and why

* "Tools" to apply to ANY situation or relationship in Life!

* Own Your Life...and Enjoy 7-Day Weekends!


Here is a list of the first 20, I will send other emails with the rest of the dates!

1. Jacksonville, Fl October24, 2008

2. Grenville, SC October 25

3. Charlotte, NC October26

4. Roanoke, VA October27

5. Baltimore, MD October 28

6. Harrisburg, PA October 29

7. Philadelphia, PA October 30

8. New Jersey November 1

9. New York November 2

10. Massachusetts November 3

11. Manchester, NH November 5

12. New Brunswick Canada November 7

13. Montreal, Canada November 8

14. Toronto, Canada November 9

15. Cleavland, OH November 12

16. Detroit, MI November 13

17. Chicago, Ill November 14

18. Milwaukee, WI November 15

19. Indiana November 16

20. Elizabeth Town, KY November 17

I know this was a long email, thank you for baring with me,

 AWESOME stuff going on!

Don't forget you come as my guest and you will get in f-ree!!



God Bless you!

Linda Britt

407 856 1948


[email protected]

LINDA BRITT — Wed, 10/22/2008 - 10:12am

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