Allen Gradias

I grew up in Santa Barbara and move to were I live now I have been living here for about 25 yrs. I just got married For the second time but it just fills better this time around.She's a sweet lady from indonesia and we  have a very good connection we really love each other and it's great .It all started over on  Aug. 3 And I'm just starting in this marketing buisness so I don't know to much but I am willing to learn .I went Santa Barbara high school were I recieved my diploma and went to Santa Barbara city college. Then went to work for a cable contractor were I learned about the cable business. Did that for a while then the company shut down so I went to work as a mechanic at a local shop in Santa Barbara and stayed for 4 yrs. then got married and moved to Paso Robles were I live now I have two kids daughter & a son both grown so I'm trying my hand at online marketing. which I have never done but I'm having fun with it so far and I have meet some very nice people And it's had it's ups and downs .I drive a truck full time but I'm hopeing that this will start making enough money that I can just stop work and do this full time which would be nice  right now it's raining and that sucks beause When it rains I dont work and that means no money and it drives me crazy so I'm trying to stay busy on the internet driving traffic to my site and thats tuff because I don't type to good I've been typing this for the pass three days straight just kidding .Well  anyways I'm going to make something to eat so talk to you later . Hi I'm back  I should of told you this at the begining but any ways when I was about 3 my parents divorced and we lived with are mom and we were everywhere when we first moved are mom took us to watts were we lived for about 2mos. and then my dad came to get us he drove into watts at night this was in the 60's stop at a gas station to as for direction then drove into watts were spent the night in his car waiting to see us in the morning were he kidnap us kinda but we were getting ice cream and he snagged us and took us with him . We stayed with him but are mom got us back and took us to south carolina and we lived there for a while till she got tired of us then she sent us on a bus from south carolina to ventura just me and my brother we were about 4 yrs. old well I was 4 my brother was 5 we lived with are grandma till we were about 13an 14 when my dad got remarried it was hard at first becuase we pretty much got to run crazy now we had to listen to someone tell what to do are step mom was a very good lady and very nice to but me and my brother thought she was to nice so we had to give her a hard time for a while but now we love her like a mom she's been more of a mom to us then anyone are real mom don't even talk to us now .One time I drove from paso robles to talk to my real mom .I did'nt know were she live I drove around tucson I'm not a good speller or a good writer but I drove around looking for her I had a couple of address were she used to live so I went ther first  And nobody knew her so I moved on And I stop at this pizza place were I hit some baseballs for a while then went in to this oriental store next to the pizza place just to look around and I talk to this lady and told her what I was doing and she asked my moms name and she knew her and told me were I might find her so I went to this oriental video store and talk to this man and he told me that he could 'nt tell me anything but wait and talk to his wife so I waited and waited I went back and talk to that lady and she got off wrk and went back there with me and talk to them we got here to call her and ask her if she wanted to talk to me and at first she said no but then I talk to her and she said that I could 'nt talk to her because of my half sister which I thought was funny because I never even met her before so I talk to her for about 30 mins. went there to see why she gave up on us .And I still don't know why but I made my attempt and that was all I could do I just needed closure but it still kinda bugs me even that lady that help was tripped out cause thats not the oriental way so we don't know anyone from that side of the family and what gets me most is that mom will die and we wont know it .Sorry for my ending thank you for reading my story ( http://www.yahphone.com)