Be, Do, Have. Why The Devil Wears Prada?
Have you heard the saying, "the Devil is in the detail?"
Watch this short Video below that explains why some people get to wear Prada and others are destined to wear Ugg Boots throughout their lives. Now don't get me wrong, Ugg Boots have their place, but who doesn't desire the finer things in life?
So what's the secret…?
Three little words; BE, DO, HAVE
Understanding this is like unlocking the door to Aladdin's Cave.
BE, DO HAVE
Most people believe that if only they had (HAVE) … (money, looks, better job, better friends, better partner, etc.), they would behave (DO) differently … (more motivated, perform better, laugh and enjoy life more, etc.) and really BE the person they feel they were supposed to be.
They believe in HAVE, DO, BE.
A person with Personal Leadership has a totally opposite mindset. They know that because of who they are, they will do what needs to be done and out of that rewards will flow naturally.
They believe in BE, DO, HAVE.
So, personal leadership starts with working on who you are; specifically your attitudes, values and beliefs. Out of this space of knowing who you are follows your actions. Congruent, focused actions automatically lead to exceptional results, especially when it comes to working with people. People are inspired by and connect to leaders who know who they are and act congruently from that space.
In the congruent model the person knows who they are and acts congruently with that sense of identity. The person in this model does what they are passionate about and their results (have) flow automatically out of that. People that operate from this model tend to have the best results but care about it the least. Whether they are successful or not does not affect them, because their identity is not found in the external.
They live life from the inside out. In the same way, as leaders, they lead from the inside out.
HAVE, DO, BE
The Victim believes that if only they ‘had’ certain environmental conditions met they would be motivated to do more or be more engaged and then they would ‘be’ happy or fulfilled. This person operates very much from the ‘effect’ side of the ‘cause and effect’ equation. In other words they blame their environment for their behavior and ultimately their personal fullfilment in life. They are very much a victim of their circumstances and feel and act like the world owes them.
So let me get right up in your face now… do you want to wear Prada or Ugg Boots?, do you want to make money or excuses?, do you want to live the life you've imagined or do you want to live a quite life of desperation? Bottom line….do you want to be the Leader or part of the herd?
The choice is yours…. Leadership starts with you…. the first person you need to lead to the 'promised land' is you…. in doing so 'people will follow' (the right people will follow).
'BE' the person you are Destined to 'become' and perpetuate your natural state of 'infinite possibilities'.
If you want to understand how to create this perpetual state of Being and learn how to create powerful 'directive affirmations' and how to set goals (and achieve them) in a Be, Do, Have context then read this Article – Is Your Self Image Holding You Back?
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